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Title: "Never Worked a Day in Her Life"
Source: Vox Populi
URL Source: http://voxday.blogspot.com/
Published: Apr 13, 2012
Author: Vox Day
Post Date: 2012-04-13 15:02:47 by Turtle
Keywords: None
Views: 392
Comments: 19

James Taranto correctly excoriates the feminist philosophy that served as the foundation for Hilary Rosen's epically stupid attack on Ann Romney:

In truth, anti-momism was the very heart of "The Feminine Mystique." Friedan's argument was that motherhood and homemaking were soul-deadening occupations and that pursuing a professional career was the way for a woman to "become complete." She agreed with the midcentury misogynists that a stay-at-home mother was, in Friedan's words, "castrative to her husband and sons." But she emphasized that women were "fellow victims."

The book might as well have been titled "Why Can't a Woman Be More Like a Man?" Today, of course, she can, and because feminism has entailed a diminution of male responsibility, she often has no choice. As we've noted, an increasing number of women are choosing domestic life, finding it a liberating alternative to working for a boss. But to do so requires a husband with considerable means.

Fifty years ago, Ann Romney's life would have made her just a regular woman. Today, she is a countercultural figure--someone who lives in a way that the dominant culture regards with a hostile disdain. And she has chosen to live that way, which is why Hilary Rosen, as an intellectual heiress to Betty Friedan, regards her as a villain rather than a victim.

Taranto also points out something that I consider vital. He effectively draws the distinction between Romney's accomplishments and Rosen's: "Raising children is a lot of work, and we'd venture to say it's more valuable work than, say, lobbying for the music industry or helping BP with its crisis communications, to name two of the highlights of Rosen's career."

I'll go even farther. Bearing and raising children is far more important than anything any working woman has ever done in her professional career in the entire history of Mankind. The silly, short-sighted, white trash teen mothers on MTV are contributing more to the human race than the most intelligent, highly educated, and accomplished women have ever done for it.

If a woman wants to devote sixteen or more years of her life to "education", then follow it up by sitting in a cubicle and transferring information from point A to point B, that's her legal right. But it's not doing anything for the human race, and indeed, considering the economically negative effects of the government agencies and human resources departments where women are inordinately employed, economic irrelevance is probably the best case scenario.

Linda Hirschman once claimed: "“The tasks of housekeeping and child-rearing are not worthy of the full time and talents of intelligent and educated human beings.”

But she had it wrong. She had it completely backwards, because there is absolutely nothing a woman, however educated and intelligent, can do that is more important or more vital than raising children. And while home-making not the physical equivalent of working in a coal mine, it is at least as laborious as most white collar employment. I have no affection for Captain Underoos and if he wins in November I think he will probably be even worse than Obama has been. But it is as evil as it is stupid to attack his wife for doing the one thing that the human race absolutely requires for its survival.

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#1. To: farmfriend, abraxas, christine, purplerose (#0)

Back in the kitchen and nursery with all of you!

Turtle  posted on  2012-04-13   15:03:42 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#2. To: Turtle (#1)

My mom never worked in her life either all the while we kids were growing up. She was a homemaker. She did not want to work outside the family. Supposedly, the father was making a decent income. But we kids did not believe this because of the poor living conditions and that we were always hungry. In my experiencing such poverty growing up, I made the determination by the time I was eight, that no way would I ever bring children into this world without a decent home and enough food. It was then, that I came to the logical thinking that it took money to raise a family because it is like a business. Having children is equivalent to charging up your credit card knowing that you have financial backing to cover those expenses. If you don't have the money, don't use the card. If you don't make good money, keep your stick in your pants and don't start something you'll later regret.

In today's material world, it requires two income earnings to be able to raise a family. When I was in my twenties, the last thing I was ever thinking about was starting a family. I couldn't afford to raise a family. Furthermore, I refused then, and even now, to raise a family on income below $90,000. I did not want to be raising a family on foodstamps or in poverty and living in some trailer or apartment. I wanted a home. I know all too well about poverty because my brother and I lived it most of our youth. Some call it pussy control but I feel this is really taking responsibility for my actions. If I'm going to start a family, it no longer is about me anymore. It's about the children and thinking about their future. Cause outside the nuclear family, nobody gives a damn about your kids. Society would just as much use your children as cheap labor if they could get away with it. And sadly I must say, society does get away with it because the parents have don't give a damn about their children's future.

purplerose  posted on  2012-04-13   15:37:47 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#10. To: purplerose (#2)

Furthermore, I refused then, and even now, to raise a family on income below $90,000.

I am glad most people do not think like you, very glad. God said be fruitful and multiply, he didn't say wait until you have tons of money to spoil your kids rotten before you have them. Spoiled kids are a menace to society, they mostly contribute nothing and are part of the problem, not the solution.

RickyJ  posted on  2012-04-14   13:39:18 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


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#11. To: RickyJ, purplerose (#10)

Spoiled kids are a menace to society, they mostly contribute nothing and are part of the problem, not the solution.

The child hates the parent who gives it everything.

Turtle  posted on  2012-04-14 13:42:13 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#12. To: RickyJ, purplerose, 4 (#10)

God said be fruitful and multiply...

NB: He said that when there were like 25 people on earth.

Lod  posted on  2012-04-14 13:51:41 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#15. To: RickyJ (#10)

I am glad most people do not think like you, very glad. God said be fruitful and multiply, he didn't say wait until you have tons of money to spoil your kids rotten before you have them. Spoiled kids are a menace to society, they mostly contribute nothing and are part of the problem, not the solution.

I learned this way of thinking by observing my favorite aunt. She was the one who taught me about what raising a family is about. She married very well and made certain her children were well-provided. She even made certain they went to college on the money that she and her husband saved. Those children grew up to be very well-educated adults. One went to med school and the other went to business school in Chicago. Neither of those children were snot-nosed spoiled brats. In fact, they were very sweet and well-mannered and respectable in the public presence.

purplerose  posted on  2012-04-14 14:16:27 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


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