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Title: "Never Worked a Day in Her Life"
Source: Vox Populi
URL Source: http://voxday.blogspot.com/
Published: Apr 13, 2012
Author: Vox Day
Post Date: 2012-04-13 15:02:47 by Turtle
Keywords: None
Views: 389
Comments: 19

James Taranto correctly excoriates the feminist philosophy that served as the foundation for Hilary Rosen's epically stupid attack on Ann Romney:

In truth, anti-momism was the very heart of "The Feminine Mystique." Friedan's argument was that motherhood and homemaking were soul-deadening occupations and that pursuing a professional career was the way for a woman to "become complete." She agreed with the midcentury misogynists that a stay-at-home mother was, in Friedan's words, "castrative to her husband and sons." But she emphasized that women were "fellow victims."

The book might as well have been titled "Why Can't a Woman Be More Like a Man?" Today, of course, she can, and because feminism has entailed a diminution of male responsibility, she often has no choice. As we've noted, an increasing number of women are choosing domestic life, finding it a liberating alternative to working for a boss. But to do so requires a husband with considerable means.

Fifty years ago, Ann Romney's life would have made her just a regular woman. Today, she is a countercultural figure--someone who lives in a way that the dominant culture regards with a hostile disdain. And she has chosen to live that way, which is why Hilary Rosen, as an intellectual heiress to Betty Friedan, regards her as a villain rather than a victim.

Taranto also points out something that I consider vital. He effectively draws the distinction between Romney's accomplishments and Rosen's: "Raising children is a lot of work, and we'd venture to say it's more valuable work than, say, lobbying for the music industry or helping BP with its crisis communications, to name two of the highlights of Rosen's career."

I'll go even farther. Bearing and raising children is far more important than anything any working woman has ever done in her professional career in the entire history of Mankind. The silly, short-sighted, white trash teen mothers on MTV are contributing more to the human race than the most intelligent, highly educated, and accomplished women have ever done for it.

If a woman wants to devote sixteen or more years of her life to "education", then follow it up by sitting in a cubicle and transferring information from point A to point B, that's her legal right. But it's not doing anything for the human race, and indeed, considering the economically negative effects of the government agencies and human resources departments where women are inordinately employed, economic irrelevance is probably the best case scenario.

Linda Hirschman once claimed: "“The tasks of housekeeping and child-rearing are not worthy of the full time and talents of intelligent and educated human beings.”

But she had it wrong. She had it completely backwards, because there is absolutely nothing a woman, however educated and intelligent, can do that is more important or more vital than raising children. And while home-making not the physical equivalent of working in a coal mine, it is at least as laborious as most white collar employment. I have no affection for Captain Underoos and if he wins in November I think he will probably be even worse than Obama has been. But it is as evil as it is stupid to attack his wife for doing the one thing that the human race absolutely requires for its survival.

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#1. To: farmfriend, abraxas, christine, purplerose (#0)

Back in the kitchen and nursery with all of you!

Turtle  posted on  2012-04-13   15:03:42 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#2. To: Turtle (#1)

My mom never worked in her life either all the while we kids were growing up. She was a homemaker. She did not want to work outside the family. Supposedly, the father was making a decent income. But we kids did not believe this because of the poor living conditions and that we were always hungry. In my experiencing such poverty growing up, I made the determination by the time I was eight, that no way would I ever bring children into this world without a decent home and enough food. It was then, that I came to the logical thinking that it took money to raise a family because it is like a business. Having children is equivalent to charging up your credit card knowing that you have financial backing to cover those expenses. If you don't have the money, don't use the card. If you don't make good money, keep your stick in your pants and don't start something you'll later regret.

In today's material world, it requires two income earnings to be able to raise a family. When I was in my twenties, the last thing I was ever thinking about was starting a family. I couldn't afford to raise a family. Furthermore, I refused then, and even now, to raise a family on income below $90,000. I did not want to be raising a family on foodstamps or in poverty and living in some trailer or apartment. I wanted a home. I know all too well about poverty because my brother and I lived it most of our youth. Some call it pussy control but I feel this is really taking responsibility for my actions. If I'm going to start a family, it no longer is about me anymore. It's about the children and thinking about their future. Cause outside the nuclear family, nobody gives a damn about your kids. Society would just as much use your children as cheap labor if they could get away with it. And sadly I must say, society does get away with it because the parents have don't give a damn about their children's future.

purplerose  posted on  2012-04-13   15:37:47 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#6. To: purplerose (#2)

In today's material world, it requires two income earnings to be able to raise a family.

Purplerose,

Sorry but you are wrong. What part of the country did you live in when you made this assessment? Plenty of families do it all over the country for less than 90k/year. Two incomes don't solve any problems, because the money the wife makes is consumed by the extra expenses that are necessitated when the wife works. Not to mention the probability of affairs with work colleagues rises as well. Farming the kids out to daycare or other care provider, your clothes, gas, taxes, insurance etc combine to make the wife working essentially meaningless. You can raise kids off of 90k/year or less, you just can't live an extravagant lifestyle in the process.

Which is more important, the car you drive, or happy, healthy kids who get the love, affection and attention they need?

echo5sierra  posted on  2012-04-13   16:52:50 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#7. To: echo5sierra (#6) (Edited)

Which is more important, the car you drive, or happy, healthy kids who get the love, affection and attention they need?

Love attention and affection are of the emotional needs. These things are fine and all but they don't pay the bills. That is a fact. I think in logical practical sense.

What I consider of higher priority is that the children I bring in I am able to provide for them a very good life. I want for them to live in a safe neighborhood and be able to provide good food for them. But most of all I care about their future which is why from the time of conception, I am already building on their future such as creating a trust fund for their college tuition. If you look at most of the jobs that are out there for young kids these days, its barely enough to get them by. I see it everyday listening to their struggles and I know of their struggles trying to juggle college and three jobs! It's the reason why were I to become a parent that I would want for my children to have an easier life. And I would also want them to go to college so that they can find jobs that pay good salaries. I want them to have the American Dream. That's what it's all about.

purplerose  posted on  2012-04-14   13:15:48 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


#8. To: purplerose (#7) (Edited)

These things are fine and all but they don't pay the bills.

I will raise my kids in a trailer in the Ozarks, and homeschool them, before I send them to public schools. College these days is worthless and when people graduate they owe so much money they can never pay it back. And the debt cannot be discharged though bankruptcy.

"Good salaries" don't exist anymore. Wages stopped going up in 1973, courtesy of our government. Had they continued to rise as they should have the average wage would be about $90,000 a year.

A guy I know worked for Kraft is Chicago for 18 years before his job was eliminated. He was making about $75,000 a year. He was working 12 hours a day. He said when his job was eliminated it felt like a ton lifted from his shoulders.

There are more things to life than slaving your life away.

Turtle  posted on  2012-04-14   13:26:47 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  


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