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Title: Howdy Friends Care to lend an ear?
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Published: Jan 27, 2015
Author: Russell
Post Date: 2015-01-27 22:41:26 by titorite
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Views: 1247
Comments: 92

Hello friends.
In the last year some of yall may of noticed that I no longer post here as often as I used too. The reason for that is my Ex-wife. I've been concerned about her using my political views against me in her effort to deprive our son of a relationship with me, his father. Ever since this divorce started her sole concern has been revenge against me utilizing any means available to her, including and especially our son.
While the Spam email,magazine subscriptions, and solicitor phone calls have been annoying the true pain comes from being deprived contact with our son. Currently, she allows contact Once every two weeks by skype if she feels like it. Often times she does not feel like it and when she doesn't feel like allowing communication she doesn't inform me. I am just left in the dark waiting. And If I need to change the time I can't because she won't discuss it. Not that I have a phone number or address because I don't. To this day she is still hiding him in secret to maintain control over him.

The divorce has been finalized but the courts insist that the custody aspects of it must be heard in Quebec Canada. So I must travel back to Quebec as soon as I can , before she schedules the custody hearing in my absence.
To that end I am selling everything I own. sanmarcos.craigslist.org/bar/4827960646.html
Not everything I have is in the pictures there so if your interested in doing some "picking" we can arrange a time for that.
If you would like to help out but don't wanna buy anything I have also set up a charity www.gofundme.com/kvu8pw
If you would like to help out but have no money you can still help by sharing those links on your social media websites.
At stake is the welfare and well being of an innocent four year old boy who has done nothing wrong and deserves so much better than this. He has a right to his father just as much as he has a right to his mother. Unfortunately his mother does not quite seem to agree and is doing all in her power to deprive him to get even with me. HE deserves better.
So, be sure to check out the links and share them around and any and all help you can give is appreciated beyond words.
Thank you.
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#21. To: All (#0)
Just letting you all know on an update
Russell did reach Montreal safe and sound, where he proceeded to go straight at my mothers for the last 4 days in a row since it is the only address he knows of. Instead of communicating with an attorney or a CSSS for visitation scheduling with our son, he has been active and busy harassing my mother of 70 years of age.
Tonight it culminated in him kicking and banging at her door, ringing her doorbell like heaven caught on fire even tho she told him to go through with an attorney or someone to schedule a visit, more than once. It ended with the cops catching him red handed at her door still, he is lucky he did not get arrested.
For those who contributed funds for his little venture which he did not fix his truck and came up with his mother's van, helping him terrorize my mother and her landlord who lives downstairs, both are 70's+ A stellar job at supporting your pal Russell!
If you are wondering, I am mad as hell!
It is one thing he got you all swindled and suckered into how his ex wife is the wicked witch of the north but it is unacceptable for him to behave in such a matter. His previous lawyer is already paying the price for accepting his case, she did her job. In court back then, it was found that he knew that we were relocating and he admitted that there was no set date for our return or our son's return, she defended him to the best of her ability but considering the 2 main points were met when it came to international child kidnapping, he had no case anymore so the judge offered him to either withdraw his case or he would likely rule against him. Now, if he pulled the same shit has he did with the attorney he hired for the divorce case back in Texas and lied flat out to her as he did her Texas attorney, no wonder she could not defend him or counsel him properly. Russell told his Texas lawyer that there was no arrangement or court order regarding custody of out child. When my SA attorney told me that she asked his lawyer if she knew that there was already a court order in place, she was unaware it was so... Strike one, bold face lie.
Russell also have been active on Reddit where he has been busy smearing the crap out of me, no names mentioned, but still, active of also depicting on how he believes and is convinced I'm a narcissist. For those who have not done any research on the subject, they project big time, it is never their fault, they are to be pitied, they get screwed over all the time, they mean well (I have 2 black eyes unreported to the cops and one reported assault where he pleaded guilty and did jail time) and the list is long, just don't like to dwell in the past and tried to move on. So far have not chimed into his pity fest but tonight was straw that broke the camel's back.
He has no boundaries, he has no reservations. He even got a hold of an old list I did in an attempt to save our marriage, part of a self help book, fascinating womanhood, and posted it on reddit
http://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/comments/2w9lrm/25_things_i_hate_abo ut_myself/
And some other stuff, and then more. Have kept quiet, have not impeded in his "little oh poor me pity" me fest nor kept one step ahead to try to defend myself because I knew it would be useless because 1) He would twist around everything I said accusing me of doing the same and 2) He would always have an excuse for his behavior and why he did it.
Not secreting our son, just have a strong sense of self preservation after going through everything I did with that man. He puts on a good persona in public, he is likable, believable, charming, honest, gentle, kind, understanding, genuine... In private and after living with that man for 5 years, I can tell you otherwise but that is what i'm trying to desperately put in the past to move forward. This is why i've been silent, this is why you have not heard a single peep about the user behind the moniker that is SilverStorm.
Martin/Artisan, Cynthia, really?
In the name of seeking truth and an equal fight, do I have a place on your page do defend myself and post the supervised custody arrangement we both signed, his consent letter, his abusive e-mails, his criminal records, the new and upcoming police reports of him harassing my mother?
For the record, I did not "dump him" as you posted on your website, he wanted me out, desperately so he could pursue his new 19 years old flame at the time, Shawnessy Rife.
Russell, if you read this, restraining orders, with an s as plural are coming your way, thank you for being such a jerk and showing your true colors, once again.
Cynthia aka Nancy

SilverStorm posted on 2015-02-25 0:46:04 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
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#22. To: SilverStorm (#21)
What are you doing in Canada?? Are you trying to keep Russell from seeing his son by crossing an international border???

X-15 posted on 2015-02-25 01:18:45 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#26. To: SilverStorm (#21)
Although I feel strongly that a public forum is no place for such personal and private family matters I do believe you have a reasonable fear for your safety and wish for you the strength and the wisdom to do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and your son. It wasn't me who started this thread!

Hmmmmm posted on 2015-02-25 09:52:44 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#30. To: SilverStorm (#21) (Edited)
If you are wondering, I am mad as hell!

I'm wondering why you think it's ok for you to be that mad but an ex-husband obstructed by over-complicated, long-distance separation from his own child not so much or at all. If you've gotten that impression from the vintage "Network" movie and it led you to open windows here to vent such in anxiety -- even to the unhinged point of claiming that it would be like justified homicide for you and yours to eliminate him from this world over alleged noisy door-knocking and 4 different times consecutively -- best not to go by that flick anymore as an exemplary parenting council.
Edited last sentence.

GreyLmist posted on 2015-02-25 13:14:43 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#31. To: SilverStorm (#21) (Edited)
Not secreting our son, just have a strong sense of self preservation after going through everything I did with that man. He puts on a good persona in public, he is likable, believable, charming, honest, gentle, kind, understanding, genuine... In private and after living with that man for 5 years, I can tell you otherwise but that is what i'm trying to desperately put in the past to move forward. This is why i've been silent, this is why you have not heard a single peep about the user behind the moniker that is SilverStorm.

Who do you think that user was now behind all the prior SilverStorm-moniker posts disputing his versions in this lengthy saga? If it was you but you'd forgotten about it, that further compounds my apprehensive qualms in regard to the isolation of your son from his father.
Edited last sentence after the comma.

GreyLmist posted on 2015-02-25 14:43:04 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#46. To: SilverStorm, christine (#21)
Martin/Artisan, Cynthia, really?
In the name of seeking truth and an equal fight, do I have a place on your page do defend myself and post the supervised custody arrangement we both signed, his consent letter, his abusive e-mails, his criminal records, the new and upcoming police reports of him harassing my mother?
For the record, I did not "dump him" as you posted on your website, he wanted me out, desperately so he could pursue his new 19 years old flame at the time, Shawnessy Rife.
Russell, if you read this, restraining orders, with an s as plural are coming your way, thank you for being such a jerk and showing your true colors, once again.
Cynthia aka Nancy

Sure, since I don't know you from Adam, I posted the exchange with him verbatim.
feel free to e-mail me whatever you wish (thru my site here) and send your info via link or pdf files and I will post it .
the Cynthia thing was simply being polite since I did not know if you wanted your name used, I chose not to use it.

for what its worth, I actually encouraged russell to try to save his marriage with you because I do not believe in divorce and I hope all married couples could work on and save their marriage when in problems. I believe marriage is an unbreakable, sacred covenant with God.
the best way to stay updated: if you have a twitter account, you can give me the link and I will embed it on the article page just like I did russells, that way you can both give all the updates you want and they will appear without my involvement or doing any extra work.

Artisan posted on 2015-02-26 08:44:27 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#48. To: SilverStorm (#21)
Here is the update I referred to, I posted what you wrote.
as an aside: to me, 'dumping' is the same as divorcing. to me the marriage bond is unbreakable unless it was not a valid marriage to begin with., so dumping vs divorcing is a matter of semantics.. although I did not know the details of the younger women you refer to. if I had known about that I would certainly condemn it and tell him he was wrong if that were the case. adultery is always wrong and will send a person to hell for all eternity unless they repent and stop it.

Artisan posted on 2015-02-26 08:57:58 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#63. To: SilverStorm (#21)
And here we sit in court to sort out the lies. Yeah they got wifi here. I had no idea she was active recently. For someone whos filed no contact orderz you sure do go out of your way to communicate with me. And all that bs you typed, typical narccisistic bs. If you had any empathy for our son at all you wuld not be attempting to destroy his relationship with his father. I have given up everything just to be here for him because i love him.... now i want you to stop hating me so much that you are qilling to harm him if it means hurting me. You are not the victim you pretend to be.... btw. Everyone else thinks youre pretending too. It is obvious. Just stop usong our aon as your tool to cause me pain because. You are burting him too and it will backfire with resentment when the truth co,es out.... you have time to make amends before permenate damage is done.
If you have even one ounce of empathy with our aon youll stopp trying to destroy our relationship

titorite posted on 2015-02-26 15:26:48 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
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