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Title: Howdy Friends Care to lend an ear?
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Published: Jan 27, 2015
Author: Russell
Post Date: 2015-01-27 22:41:26 by titorite
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Views: 1254
Comments: 92

Hello friends.
In the last year some of yall may of noticed that I no longer post here as often as I used too. The reason for that is my Ex-wife. I've been concerned about her using my political views against me in her effort to deprive our son of a relationship with me, his father. Ever since this divorce started her sole concern has been revenge against me utilizing any means available to her, including and especially our son.
While the Spam email,magazine subscriptions, and solicitor phone calls have been annoying the true pain comes from being deprived contact with our son. Currently, she allows contact Once every two weeks by skype if she feels like it. Often times she does not feel like it and when she doesn't feel like allowing communication she doesn't inform me. I am just left in the dark waiting. And If I need to change the time I can't because she won't discuss it. Not that I have a phone number or address because I don't. To this day she is still hiding him in secret to maintain control over him.

The divorce has been finalized but the courts insist that the custody aspects of it must be heard in Quebec Canada. So I must travel back to Quebec as soon as I can , before she schedules the custody hearing in my absence.
To that end I am selling everything I own. sanmarcos.craigslist.org/bar/4827960646.html
Not everything I have is in the pictures there so if your interested in doing some "picking" we can arrange a time for that.
If you would like to help out but don't wanna buy anything I have also set up a charity www.gofundme.com/kvu8pw
If you would like to help out but have no money you can still help by sharing those links on your social media websites.
At stake is the welfare and well being of an innocent four year old boy who has done nothing wrong and deserves so much better than this. He has a right to his father just as much as he has a right to his mother. Unfortunately his mother does not quite seem to agree and is doing all in her power to deprive him to get even with me. HE deserves better.
So, be sure to check out the links and share them around and any and all help you can give is appreciated beyond words.
Thank you.
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#21. To: All (#0)
Just letting you all know on an update
Russell did reach Montreal safe and sound, where he proceeded to go straight at my mothers for the last 4 days in a row since it is the only address he knows of. Instead of communicating with an attorney or a CSSS for visitation scheduling with our son, he has been active and busy harassing my mother of 70 years of age.
Tonight it culminated in him kicking and banging at her door, ringing her doorbell like heaven caught on fire even tho she told him to go through with an attorney or someone to schedule a visit, more than once. It ended with the cops catching him red handed at her door still, he is lucky he did not get arrested.
For those who contributed funds for his little venture which he did not fix his truck and came up with his mother's van, helping him terrorize my mother and her landlord who lives downstairs, both are 70's+ A stellar job at supporting your pal Russell!
If you are wondering, I am mad as hell!
It is one thing he got you all swindled and suckered into how his ex wife is the wicked witch of the north but it is unacceptable for him to behave in such a matter. His previous lawyer is already paying the price for accepting his case, she did her job. In court back then, it was found that he knew that we were relocating and he admitted that there was no set date for our return or our son's return, she defended him to the best of her ability but considering the 2 main points were met when it came to international child kidnapping, he had no case anymore so the judge offered him to either withdraw his case or he would likely rule against him. Now, if he pulled the same shit has he did with the attorney he hired for the divorce case back in Texas and lied flat out to her as he did her Texas attorney, no wonder she could not defend him or counsel him properly. Russell told his Texas lawyer that there was no arrangement or court order regarding custody of out child. When my SA attorney told me that she asked his lawyer if she knew that there was already a court order in place, she was unaware it was so... Strike one, bold face lie.
Russell also have been active on Reddit where he has been busy smearing the crap out of me, no names mentioned, but still, active of also depicting on how he believes and is convinced I'm a narcissist. For those who have not done any research on the subject, they project big time, it is never their fault, they are to be pitied, they get screwed over all the time, they mean well (I have 2 black eyes unreported to the cops and one reported assault where he pleaded guilty and did jail time) and the list is long, just don't like to dwell in the past and tried to move on. So far have not chimed into his pity fest but tonight was straw that broke the camel's back.
He has no boundaries, he has no reservations. He even got a hold of an old list I did in an attempt to save our marriage, part of a self help book, fascinating womanhood, and posted it on reddit
http://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/comments/2w9lrm/25_things_i_hate_abo ut_myself/
And some other stuff, and then more. Have kept quiet, have not impeded in his "little oh poor me pity" me fest nor kept one step ahead to try to defend myself because I knew it would be useless because 1) He would twist around everything I said accusing me of doing the same and 2) He would always have an excuse for his behavior and why he did it.
Not secreting our son, just have a strong sense of self preservation after going through everything I did with that man. He puts on a good persona in public, he is likable, believable, charming, honest, gentle, kind, understanding, genuine... In private and after living with that man for 5 years, I can tell you otherwise but that is what i'm trying to desperately put in the past to move forward. This is why i've been silent, this is why you have not heard a single peep about the user behind the moniker that is SilverStorm.
Martin/Artisan, Cynthia, really?
In the name of seeking truth and an equal fight, do I have a place on your page do defend myself and post the supervised custody arrangement we both signed, his consent letter, his abusive e-mails, his criminal records, the new and upcoming police reports of him harassing my mother?
For the record, I did not "dump him" as you posted on your website, he wanted me out, desperately so he could pursue his new 19 years old flame at the time, Shawnessy Rife.
Russell, if you read this, restraining orders, with an s as plural are coming your way, thank you for being such a jerk and showing your true colors, once again.
Cynthia aka Nancy

SilverStorm posted on 2015-02-25 0:46:04 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#22. To: SilverStorm (#21)
What are you doing in Canada?? Are you trying to keep Russell from seeing his son by crossing an international border???

X-15 posted on 2015-02-25 1:18:45 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#23. To: X-15 (#22)
What are you doing in Canada?? Are you trying to keep Russell from seeing his son by crossing an international border???

He is here.
He successfully harassed my mother for 4 consecutive days in a row. There is a court order in place X-15 of supervised visitation which he did nothing to contact the right people to make it happen, he only harassed my mom, an elderly woman whom he ended kicking and banging at her door late this afternoon. i'm sticking to the court order that WE both signed.
FYI, he could only cross because there is a court date set, otherwise, he is barred from coming to this country, he even said as much himself in one of his posts, in the thread, I love you son.
He is violent! FFS, wake up people!
Why do you think I keep my home address private!
For shit and giggles?
If he were pulling that shit at my door, he would already be in jail, collecting new badges in a foreign country. That stuff is sure going to sit well in court this upcoming Thursday.
He has visitation rights, he has done nothing so far to prevail on them beside harassing my 70 years old mother for, let me put it again, 4 straight days in a row until the cops showed up and caught him red handed!

SilverStorm posted on 2015-02-25 1:32:32 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#24. To: X-15 (#23)
Let me put it in much clear words, if this were Texas and my mother would have had a shot gun, castle doctrine would have applied.
Clear? Yes, he went to that fucking extent whereas my mother told me, if I need to flee from the back door, I will. Here in Canada, things are different, we do not have shotguns, we are not legally allowed to have guns, makes us perfect victims of abusers who knows about these laws... we can even get accused for defending ourselves. Castle doctrine works a hell of a lot better but we ain't in Texas.

SilverStorm posted on 2015-02-25 1:45:02 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#27. To: SilverStorm (#24) (Edited)
Let me put it in much clear words, if this were Texas and my mother would have had a shot gun, castle doctrine would have applied.
Clear? Yes, he went to that fucking extent whereas my mother told me, if I need to flee from the back door, I will. Here in Canada, things are different, we do not have shotguns, we are not legally allowed to have guns, makes us perfect victims of abusers who knows about these laws... we can even get accused for defending ourselves. Castle doctrine works a hell of a lot better but we ain't in Texas.

Castle doctrine!? I'm sure that wouldn't have applied in Texas or anywhere else here to a case of someone shot for alleged disturbances of the elderly by loudly knocking at the door for a few days in a row. Scary that you think it would. Maybe he was on the verge of freezing to death, since it's a very cold winter, and thought she might be hard of hearing -- as it sounds like your mother was there but pretended as if she wasn't, rather than just simply speaking to him for a bit through the door about who he should contact instead to arrange for a visitation after having traveled thousands of miles in such harsh weather to see his son. That you have vengefully made a situation so easily solved into charges of criminalization for which you think he should have received the death penalty by "Castle Doctrine" suggests freakish endangerment of him, not you and your family. Really, do you just want your son to hate his father so much that you don't care how that's done or how it negatively affects his childhood as long as you can manage to do it?
Edited 2nd, 4th and last sentence.

GreyLmist posted on 2015-02-25 11:58:06 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#35. To: GreyLmist (#27)
Castle doctrine!? I'm sure that wouldn't have applied in Texas

It would depend greatly on the county in which the incident occurred.
Given the "facts" presented so far, a lot of juries here would side with the elderly female homeowner.

Buzzard posted on 2015-02-25 19:03:48 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#36. To: Buzzard (#35) (Edited)
Yep, it would depend on the time of day, or night, and how vigorous was the door banging, and if she was in fear for her life.
And the county, as you mentioned would be the real key...

Lod posted on 2015-02-25 19:38:48 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#37. To: Lod (#36) (Edited)
Me at #27: Castle doctrine!? I'm sure that wouldn't have applied in Texas
Buzzard at #35: It would depend greatly on the county in which the incident occurred. Given the "facts" presented so far, a lot of juries here would side with the elderly female homeowner.
Lod at #36: Yep, it would depend on the time of day, or night, and how vigorous was the door banging, and if she was in fear for her life. And the county, as you mentioned would be the real key...

I was thinking until now that this issue was due to a misunderstanding of that law by a foreigner, then I looked it up to see if my understanding was wrong about it pertaining to a breaking and entering situation and still got that impression.
Are you both very sure that Texas does have some county Castle Doctrine laws because I couldn't find it listed among the States that do at Castle doctrine - Wikipedia? I even did a word search there for "Texas" to see if I missed something outside of the State List and it's not mentioned at all anywhere on that page.
I realize that Wikipedia isn't the best of legal resources but it does seem to indicate that an actual intrusion into another's domicile is the trespassing criteria, not just claiming imminent peril from the nearby presence of a person said to be knocking improperly at the door -- the question being whether or not someone has a duty to retreat from their premises if they can before using deadly force in a home invasion case. For example, someone once walked into my home by mistake. I couldn't just leave the house out of fear but, if I had shot them, I might have been arrested because they were developmentally handicapped -- in addition to their having simply walked in through an unlocked door that I thought was secure, not by breaking it or unlatching it to enter.
Edited last sentence.

GreyLmist posted on 2015-02-26 1:07:38 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#39. To: Buzzard, SilverStorm (#37)
Forgot to ping you to the reply at #37, Buzzard. While I'm at it, SilverStorm, abusers often seek to isolate someone from those who care about them. titorite isn't doing that to you but you are doing that to your son. I hope you'll give that some thought because, in this country, you wouldn't have to see his father for them to see each other regularly through an authorized place that guards children until the other parent gets there or oversees their visits.

GreyLmist posted on 2015-02-26 1:30:15 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
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