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Title: Howdy Friends Care to lend an ear?
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Published: Jan 27, 2015
Author: Russell
Post Date: 2015-01-27 22:41:26 by titorite
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Views: 1368
Comments: 92

Hello friends.
In the last year some of yall may of noticed that I no longer post here as often as I used too. The reason for that is my Ex-wife. I've been concerned about her using my political views against me in her effort to deprive our son of a relationship with me, his father. Ever since this divorce started her sole concern has been revenge against me utilizing any means available to her, including and especially our son.
While the Spam email,magazine subscriptions, and solicitor phone calls have been annoying the true pain comes from being deprived contact with our son. Currently, she allows contact Once every two weeks by skype if she feels like it. Often times she does not feel like it and when she doesn't feel like allowing communication she doesn't inform me. I am just left in the dark waiting. And If I need to change the time I can't because she won't discuss it. Not that I have a phone number or address because I don't. To this day she is still hiding him in secret to maintain control over him.

The divorce has been finalized but the courts insist that the custody aspects of it must be heard in Quebec Canada. So I must travel back to Quebec as soon as I can , before she schedules the custody hearing in my absence.
To that end I am selling everything I own. sanmarcos.craigslist.org/bar/4827960646.html
Not everything I have is in the pictures there so if your interested in doing some "picking" we can arrange a time for that.
If you would like to help out but don't wanna buy anything I have also set up a charity www.gofundme.com/kvu8pw
If you would like to help out but have no money you can still help by sharing those links on your social media websites.
At stake is the welfare and well being of an innocent four year old boy who has done nothing wrong and deserves so much better than this. He has a right to his father just as much as he has a right to his mother. Unfortunately his mother does not quite seem to agree and is doing all in her power to deprive him to get even with me. HE deserves better.
So, be sure to check out the links and share them around and any and all help you can give is appreciated beyond words.
Thank you.
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#21. To: All (#0)
Just letting you all know on an update
Russell did reach Montreal safe and sound, where he proceeded to go straight at my mothers for the last 4 days in a row since it is the only address he knows of. Instead of communicating with an attorney or a CSSS for visitation scheduling with our son, he has been active and busy harassing my mother of 70 years of age.
Tonight it culminated in him kicking and banging at her door, ringing her doorbell like heaven caught on fire even tho she told him to go through with an attorney or someone to schedule a visit, more than once. It ended with the cops catching him red handed at her door still, he is lucky he did not get arrested.
For those who contributed funds for his little venture which he did not fix his truck and came up with his mother's van, helping him terrorize my mother and her landlord who lives downstairs, both are 70's+ A stellar job at supporting your pal Russell!
If you are wondering, I am mad as hell!
It is one thing he got you all swindled and suckered into how his ex wife is the wicked witch of the north but it is unacceptable for him to behave in such a matter. His previous lawyer is already paying the price for accepting his case, she did her job. In court back then, it was found that he knew that we were relocating and he admitted that there was no set date for our return or our son's return, she defended him to the best of her ability but considering the 2 main points were met when it came to international child kidnapping, he had no case anymore so the judge offered him to either withdraw his case or he would likely rule against him. Now, if he pulled the same shit has he did with the attorney he hired for the divorce case back in Texas and lied flat out to her as he did her Texas attorney, no wonder she could not defend him or counsel him properly. Russell told his Texas lawyer that there was no arrangement or court order regarding custody of out child. When my SA attorney told me that she asked his lawyer if she knew that there was already a court order in place, she was unaware it was so... Strike one, bold face lie.
Russell also have been active on Reddit where he has been busy smearing the crap out of me, no names mentioned, but still, active of also depicting on how he believes and is convinced I'm a narcissist. For those who have not done any research on the subject, they project big time, it is never their fault, they are to be pitied, they get screwed over all the time, they mean well (I have 2 black eyes unreported to the cops and one reported assault where he pleaded guilty and did jail time) and the list is long, just don't like to dwell in the past and tried to move on. So far have not chimed into his pity fest but tonight was straw that broke the camel's back.
He has no boundaries, he has no reservations. He even got a hold of an old list I did in an attempt to save our marriage, part of a self help book, fascinating womanhood, and posted it on reddit
http://www.reddit.com/r/NarcissisticAbuse/comments/2w9lrm/25_things_i_hate_abo ut_myself/
And some other stuff, and then more. Have kept quiet, have not impeded in his "little oh poor me pity" me fest nor kept one step ahead to try to defend myself because I knew it would be useless because 1) He would twist around everything I said accusing me of doing the same and 2) He would always have an excuse for his behavior and why he did it.
Not secreting our son, just have a strong sense of self preservation after going through everything I did with that man. He puts on a good persona in public, he is likable, believable, charming, honest, gentle, kind, understanding, genuine... In private and after living with that man for 5 years, I can tell you otherwise but that is what i'm trying to desperately put in the past to move forward. This is why i've been silent, this is why you have not heard a single peep about the user behind the moniker that is SilverStorm.
Martin/Artisan, Cynthia, really?
In the name of seeking truth and an equal fight, do I have a place on your page do defend myself and post the supervised custody arrangement we both signed, his consent letter, his abusive e-mails, his criminal records, the new and upcoming police reports of him harassing my mother?
For the record, I did not "dump him" as you posted on your website, he wanted me out, desperately so he could pursue his new 19 years old flame at the time, Shawnessy Rife.
Russell, if you read this, restraining orders, with an s as plural are coming your way, thank you for being such a jerk and showing your true colors, once again.
Cynthia aka Nancy

SilverStorm posted on 2015-02-25 0:46:04 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#63. To: SilverStorm (#21)
And here we sit in court to sort out the lies. Yeah they got wifi here. I had no idea she was active recently. For someone whos filed no contact orderz you sure do go out of your way to communicate with me. And all that bs you typed, typical narccisistic bs. If you had any empathy for our son at all you wuld not be attempting to destroy his relationship with his father. I have given up everything just to be here for him because i love him.... now i want you to stop hating me so much that you are qilling to harm him if it means hurting me. You are not the victim you pretend to be.... btw. Everyone else thinks youre pretending too. It is obvious. Just stop usong our aon as your tool to cause me pain because. You are burting him too and it will backfire with resentment when the truth co,es out.... you have time to make amends before permenate damage is done.
If you have even one ounce of empathy with our aon youll stopp trying to destroy our relationship

titorite posted on 2015-02-26 15:26:48 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#64. To: titorite (#63)
For someone whos filed no contact orderz you sure do go out of your way to communicate with me.

A friendly bit of advice. ANYONE can read your comments, and a no-contact order doesn't bar the victim from making contact, it bars the defendent from making contact with the victim. For violating a no-contact order, you can be arrested immediately and sit in jail until the court matter is resolved.
Violating a no-contact order is a crime in and of itself.
PS: As others have noted, airing of dirty laundry in public is never a good idea. You should perhaps be speaking to a lawyer rather than asking people on the net for advice.

FormerLurker posted on 2015-02-26 15:33:57 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#66. To: FormerLurker (#64) (Edited)
Well fl. Me and you dont like each other much so ill invite you to bite me. And the contact is not just here it is also by other more private means... she doesnt want me to say anything but gets off on yeari.g me down and telling me ill never see my son again and all.sorts ofstuff like that.. so,e publicly so,e private but all documented. Cause im sick of the lies and truth will preveil. Also i aint seeking advice no more iwasa tully begging. And that money is gonna save my but right on time and help with housing...
I was gonna takemy truck.. but i was gonna make a few extra thousand too. Silver got this safeguard order ram rodded trying to cancel my parwntal rights. Saying i almost never visited leopold... she knows sheis lying.. she doesnt care... her mind is now stuck in thesickness and our son should not be the one forced to pay.

titorite posted on 2015-02-26 15:46:24 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#68. To: titorite (#66)
If I wanted to I could seriously rip on you, but I've never found it a great idea to kick a man while he's down, and generally don't go out of my way to cause people grief.
As I said, it'd be best for you and all involved if you kept your personal matters private, ESPECIALLY if there's a restraining order or no-contact order (in regards to a criminal case) against you. Like I said, ANYONE can easily find this page and read your comments to your ex, and that includes cops and court officials.
If I were you I'd try to avoid making a scene anywhere, and try to find some positive things to do rather than dwell on something you can't change at this point in time.

FormerLurker posted on 2015-02-26 16:42:22 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#69. To: FormerLurker, titorite (#68)
I think formerlurker gave very sound & sincere advice. Thanks

Artisan posted on 2015-02-26 18:04:15 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#71. To: Artisan (#69)
No way, im not take advice from that man. Fl still thinks .... well disagreeable thoughts. So ill leave it at that.
The court date was.postponed so i could retain a lawyer. Nancy tried to get my parental rights. Taken away with out me having a.lawyer but the judge frowned on that and some other things. Ms perfect didnt see it she misses all sorts of things.
The time has come.to.stop lying and stop using our son as a tool. I INSIST ON THIS. YOU WILL STOP USING OUR SON AS A TOOL. Whether you like.it or not. It is sick and i assure you, it will stop because he deserves better and the courts.are going ro agree. And they will agree. Be ause it is in his best interest to be raised by lo ing parents that would.rather suffer.thmselves.than cause their own child pain But i digress. Fl has no good advice for me.

titorite posted on 2015-02-26 18:14:26 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#74. To: titorite (#71)
The time has come.to.stop lying and stop using our son as a tool. I INSIST ON THIS. YOU WILL STOP USING OUR SON AS A TOOL. Whether you like.it or not. It is sick and i assure you, it will stop because he deserves better and the courts.are going ro agree. And they will agree. Be ause it is in his best interest to be raised by lo ing parents that would.rather suffer.thmselves.than cause their own child pain But i digress. Fl has no good advice for me.

Since I am not there in person to hold up a large mirror in front of you and ask you to take a good look at yourself, I ask you to at least look at your post. Calm down, you are not doing yourself any favors right now. I say that as a completely disinterested bystander whose only agenda is that common sense should prevail. Peace, all of you.

Dakmar posted on 2015-02-26 20:54:49 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#78. To: Dakmar (#74)
Since I am not there in person to hold up a large mirror in front of you and ask you to take a good look at yourself, I ask you to at least look at your post. Calm down, you are not doing yourself any favors right now. I say that as a completely disinterested bystander whose only agenda is that common sense should prevail. Peace, all of you.

i am not the one denying the other parent all contact so i can feel good about myself. Im not even allowed a phone call. She wants me on skype only and most of the time she denies skype visits she has a long history of doing that now so no... that wont work..., and since she wants to talk shit here but not anywhere else ... well whatevere. Here i am. We can talk here , in court, on the side of the road, i for.one am not to cowardly to have a.little.conversation on the matter of.best inerests

titorite posted on 2015-02-27 5:37:12 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#80. To: titorite (#78)
We can talk here , in court, on the side of the road, i for.one am not to cowardly to have a.little.conversation on the matter of.best inerests

You best hope neither the judge nor the lawyers involved in your case know how to use the Internet.
You said there's a restraining order against you, correct?

FormerLurker posted on 2015-02-27 10:51:56 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#84. To: FormerLurker (#80)
Incorrect, a motion of no contact has been included in an amendment to custdy and access. But kudos to you for misunderstanding now go stir the pot somewhere else, youve had no interest in this plight ofmie before, there is no need for your interest now. I dont believe you have anything positive to contribute.

titorite posted on 2015-02-27 12:04:33 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
#86. To: titorite (#84)
Hey dude, have fun sitting in jail somewhere. It might do you some good, and give some welcome relief to those you've been hounding.

FormerLurker posted on 2015-02-27 13:28:51 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
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#88. To: FormerLurker (#86) (Edited)
Im not gonna bein jail nor am i hounding anyone. Do you see me following this chic around posting every sorid detail about her i can, from every website i can find her posting on?
No. Instead you see this chic doing what i just described that you gave name too. Hounding. Are they going to jail? No. Did they lie about things like having a valid passport just so they could break the law and atempt to illegally retain our child while cutting out daddy out of an act of spite?
Lurker, i was right. You have nothing positive to cotribute .
And again i would encourage you or anyone else to not reply if you dislike this thead so. You are under no obligation to reply here and before things digressed into new directions everyone was generally nice and well mannered. Even mean ol jethro tull(j/k). So yeah.
Id like to share how this money will be spent quite soon in a positive atmosphere. Hint: its housing

titorite posted on 2015-02-27 15:23:03 ET Reply Untrace Trace Private Reply
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