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Title: Revenge of an Unloved Man
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Henry Makow.com
URL Source: http://www.henrymakow.com/revenge_of_an_unloved_man.html
Published: Aug 7, 2009
Author: Henry Makow Ph.D.
Post Date: 2009-08-07 00:08:17 by your_neighbor
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Comments: 9
"Starved for Love" are the words that best describe Geoge Sodini, 48, who Tuesday shot up a Pittsburgh fitness class murdering three women and maiming nine others. He left a poignant self-portrait on line that shows that although he was successful, owned a house and was physically presentable, socially he was a failure. He had painted himself into a psychological corner and there was no one, male or female, to free him. He had worked as a software developer for a large Pittsburgh law firm for ten years, had just received a raise, and liked his boss. "Most people there are OK and I would never have a shoot 'em up there." He had not had sex for 19 years. "There are 30 million desirable women in the US (my estimate) and I cannot find one. Not one of them finds me attractive." He watched a hottie leave a male neighbor's house, and masturbated. Yet he was real enough to suffer from a profound spiritual malaise: a sense of isolation, meaninglessness and helplessness: "How TOTALLY ALONE, a deeper word is ISOLATED, I am from all else. I no longer have any expectations of myself. I have no options because I cannot work toward and achieve even the smallest goals. That is, ABOVE ALL, what bothers me the most. Not to be able to work towards what I want in my life... I read recently it is called "self efficacy", [self improvement] but who knows. Is that more psychobabble?" He describes his family background: "My dad never (not once) talked to me or asked about my life's details and told me what he knew. He was just a useless sperm donor." His mother: "Very dominant. Her way and only her way with no flexibility toward everyone in the household. A power and control thing. People outside the immediate family like her. Why are people vicious with their closest ones? She is the Boss above all other Bosses." His brother: "Always the big bully, twice the size of most others. When he bullied or harassed someone, it was the other person who "deserved it". It was always about him. Way too self absorbed, too." He needed a real big brother or someone who could perform that role. His need for male companionship seems greater even than his need for a woman: inter.jpg"I like to write and talk. Ironic because I haven't met anybody recently (past 30 years) who I want to be close friends with OR who want to be close friends with me. I was always open to suggestions to what I am doing wrong, no brother or father (mine are useless) or close friend to nudge me and give it bluntly yet tactfully wtf I am doing wrong. A personal coach or someone who knows what he is doing would be perfect. Money is highly secondary for a solution." "I have slept alone for over 20 years. Last time I slept all night with a girlfriend it was 1982. Proof I am a total malfunction. Girls and women don't even give me a second look ANYWHERE. There is something BLATANTLY wrong with me that NO goddam person will tell me what it is. Every person just wants to be fucking nice and say nice things to me. Flattery. Oh yeah, I am sure you can get a date anytime. You look good, etc. Pussies." Yet he never sought a professional counselor? Never considered going abroad for a woman? Never found a match on the Internet? This underlines the need for informal male support groups. Men who have their acts together need to start them. I notice alot of men are blocked by their bad experiences, prejudices and expectations. All women are different. A video Sodini posted indicates he looked for a woman much younger than him, which probably was a mistake. He fixated on sex when he was really looking for a friend. WHEN WOMEN STOP BELIEVING IN MEN George_Sodini_sh_160781gm-a.jpgAs for women, there is a passage mysteriously erased from his blog that a reader posted in a Huffington Post forum: "At the gym I saw a woman I like. I see her at the park- and-ride sometimes, so she isn't a stranger. Occasionally she makes good eye contact and smiles, etc. She is maybe 40ish, and attractive to me. I made brief conversation to her and a younger woman she was with today. To get a friend like her (and for night time action) I would cancel this plan, or put on hold, at least for a while." Yet he seems impotent to act. Why? And why couldn't he just shoot himself, and not rob 12 innocent women of their lives and health? Obviously he is blaming women for his troubles. I don't. But clearly men and women have increasing difficulty mating these days because of the Rockefeller subversion of gender roles (i.e. feminism.) Natural women put the nurturing of husband and children first. That is what defines them as feminine. That is their career. By being selfless, they win the love and devotion of husband and children. That is what they really want. Rockefeller social engineers taught them this was "oppressive" and to be selfish and self seeking instead. As result they are high and dry, unloved and soon to be unemployed. I had a friend who was slowly going blind. He met a woman during intermission at a concert, a nurse, and they married and had a son. This is the way women used to be. They used to be able to love a man, believe in him. And more men used to be able to value this and commit for life. Men and women both need to relearn these skills to avoid tragedies like this one.
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#1. To: All (#0)
His mother: "Very dominant. Her way and only her way with no flexibility toward everyone in the household. A power and control thing. People outside the immediate family like her. Why are people vicious with their closest ones? She is the Boss above all other Bosses." His brother: "Always the big bully, twice the size of most others. When he bullied or harassed someone, it was the other person who "deserved it". It was always about him. Way too self absorbed, too." When family are unloving of a child --- it is almost a given that a lessor life will ensue.
that's exactly what i said after reading his diary last night.
American white European culture and the family unit have been successfully deconstructed, the primary glue that holds societies together. All of it happened in plain sight. Some tried to warn us and were ostracized with the usual cliches. America is about to go the way of other Empires before it for the same reasons. Without knowledge (of history), my people will perish - or be enslaved.
"Midway upon the journey of our life I found myself within a forest dark, To be loved, you first have to be lovable. To accomplish this, you need to have compassion and consideration for those around you. You need to be able to genuinely care about your fellow human being, to develop a vocabulary that includes words and phrases that show you are more than a self- obsessed narcissist. Apparently this was more than could be accomplished by this guy, and now there are a lot of grieving families paying the price for his narrow focus on his own needs, and dark attraction to violence inflicted on totally innocent people. It's just too damn bad he didn't just kill himself instead of lashing out.
He describes his family background: "My dad never (not once) talked to me or asked about my life's details and told me what he knew. He was just a useless sperm donor."
#2. To: your_neighbor (#1)
When family are unloving of a child --- it is almost a given that a lessor life will ensue.
#3. To: your_neighbor, christine, original_intent, allthekings'horseswontdoit, farmfriend, diana (#0)
Natural women put the nurturing of husband and children first. That is what defines them as feminine. That is their career. By being selfless, they win the love and devotion of husband and children. That is what they really want. Rockefeller social engineers taught them this was "oppressive" and to be selfish and self seeking instead. As result they are high and dry, unloved and soon to be unemployed.
For the straightforward pathway had been lost." - Dante's Inferno
#4. To: IndieTX (#3)
 | Gold and silver are REAL money, paper is but a promise. |
#5. To: IndieTX (#3)
When a child, especially a male child, has a Mother who demands absolute obedience or 'worship,' he is bound to develop a very strong hatred for Mother and will find it impossible to see other women as anything more than 'sex toys.' The only person I've ever read or heard who uniquely understands how Women Crave the Power to Destroy Men is Roy Masters. Not all Women mind you. But those unfortunate ones who've themselves been programmed by a 'Rogue Mother' will especially focus on 'their own' in order to perpetuate the generational 'gig.' Making their 'children' into images of themselves while intoxicated with the 'power' of forcing submission. Husbands who find themselves trapped in such a 'marriage' will demoralized and reduced to a whimpering fool, and will 'disconnect' from the family. Men are of course, not blameless; nor are they victims. The men of the world are being 'feminized' while the women are being 'masculinized.' With such 'screwed up' people how can the NWO fail?
Natural women put the nurturing of husband and children first.
#6. To: SCPO Blackshoe Retired (#5)
With such 'screwed up' people how can the NWO fail? Spot-on observation. Decades of perverse programming by the desert-dwellers- with-stolen-internet-connections have robbed this nation of the basic principles that made up our families and engendered a sense of national pride and patriotism beyond one's own self.
The men of the world are being 'feminized' while the women are being 'masculinized.'
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"This man is Jesus,” shouted one man, spilling his Guinness as Barack Obama began his inaugural address. “When will he come to Kenya to save us?”
-Schweizerische Schuetzenzeitung (Swiss Shooting Federation) April, 1941
#7. To: christine (#2)
It was something she read in John Steinbeck's "East of Eden" that struck Megan Harrington when she sat down to write an editorial about student shootings for her high school paper here. STEINBECK’S TRUTH The greatest terror a child can have is that he is not loved ... ... and rejection is the hell he fears ... ... and with rejection comes anger ... ... and with anger some kind of crime in revenge for the rejection ... ... and there is the story of mankind.
#8. To: IndieTX (#3)
Agree! But, don't count us out yet.
American white European culture and the family unit have been successfully deconstructed, the primary glue that holds societies together. All of it happened in plain sight. Some tried to warn us and were ostracized with the usual cliches. America is about to go the way of other Empires before it for the same reasons. Without knowledge (of history), my people will perish - or be enslaved.
"What country can preserve its liberties if its rulers are not warned from time to time that its people preserve the spirit of resistance? Let them take arms....The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants." Thomas Jefferson
#9. To: SCPO Blackshoe Retired (#5)
One of my cousins, my age, had his father die at 12, after which his mother, with no one to control her, horribly abused him. He ended up dying of alcoholism and drugs. I've met women who whine about how horrible men are, but they should look in the mirror. The things I have seen mothers do to their sons!
Women Crave the Power to Destroy Men is Roy Masters.
“No amount of reason, evidence, logic or rational argument will ever convince the true believer otherwise.”
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