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Title: Why we can't let Tiger Woods off the hook for alleged affairs with a 'sex addiction' defense
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nydailynews.com
URL Source: http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions ... ow_a_tiger_by_his_stripes.html
Published: Dec 9, 2009
Author: S. E. Cupp
Post Date: 2009-12-09 16:01:46 by beyond the sea
Keywords: Woods, Tiger, Perv, Sleazebag
Views: 1557
Comments: 185
In Britain's News of the World - whose editors and readers have such an insatiable appetite for sex scandals that the tabloid is fondly called "Screws of the World" - an addictions manager at North London's Priory Clinic says declaratively of a beleaguered Tiger Woods, "I see him as ill, not bad." Here it comes. Amid all the sordid details of Tiger's numerous "transgressions," we should now prepare ourselves for a forthcoming announcement by a very somber-looking Woods spokesman, or perhaps even by the golfer himself, that Tiger is, in fact, a sex addict. We can stop questioning his character, for this - we're being told - is a medical issue. No less an authority than Drew Pinsky, the host of VH1's reality show "Sex Rehab," told "Entertainment Tonight" that "it's safe to say that sex addiction might be part of his problem." Pinsky and the rest of the world are trying to help us understand what otherwise seems inconceivable: how such a rich, powerful and focused man ("and with such a beautiful wife!" some add, suggesting that ugly wives require no explanation) could risk his reputation, his fortune and his family to play the field with floozies. We can't let them get away with it. If the psychologizers win, they will allow brain chemistry, instead of free will, to co-opt habitual infidelity, thus completely and utterly absolving Woods of everything. Including driving barefoot, no doubt. And thereby absolving the rest of us of our sins. Yes, I said it: sins. The facts here are pretty simple. Woods made repeated and calculated decisions to deceive and hurt his family. For that he should get no sympathy. Pawning off bad behavior on some nebulous psychosis makes public apologies and professed remorse merely perfunctory, not sincere. In fact, that sex addiction even has a name (and its own television show) speaks volumes about our culture - and our collective psyche. The affliction may be real, but it also keeps us from acknowledging the immorality of our actions. After all, we don't call serial killers "murder addicts." Yet, anyway. Buying into the notion gives us license to embrace a psychology gap that keeps us divorced from our own behavior. Discussing a clinical condition is easier than actual soul-searching. Who needs confession when you can just be absolved through therapy and rehab? Over the past decade or two, psychologizing of this sort has become big business, crowding out so many basic moral judgments. The intelligentsia has so successfully marginalized morality to the far corners of its collective attics (where it also keeps religion) that the manic and predictable rush to medically explain immoral behavior has built a permanent, Bill Clinton-style wall separating the things we do in our private lives from who we really are. We saw a similar justification after the Fort Hood massacre, when scores of mental health experts decided from afar that Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan wasn't a hardened terrorist - he was just really, really stressed out from absorbing everyone else's stories of posttraumatic stress. The Tiger drama is of course worlds apart, in every imaginable way. But the aftermath shares the same frantic search for a simple explanation that does an end run around free will. And as for Tiger's mental health, sex addiction may just be the tip of the iceberg. In Psychology Today, Stanton Peele writes (with a whiff of that inimitable shrink's humor) that Tiger's success and stamina on the golf course may have predicted his behavior in the bedroom: "Rather than being a sex addict, the same single-mindedness, skill set and gift for robotic calculation that make Tiger Woods the world's greatest golfer make him an avatar of the bedroom." Amazing: For both his strengths and weaknesses, psychology manages to surgically remove Tiger, a man whose power and wealth have bought him more free will than most of us will ever have, from his own life. It's hardly a comforting thought. But Peele leaves us with an intriguing question. If we can blame Tiger's troubles on his addictive behavior, why don't we blame his successes on a personality disorder, too? This man is a golf addict, to be sure - he's downright obsessed. But for that he earns our praise and respect. And tons of money. Forgive me for sounding old-fashioned. But the best prescription for a long, healthy life isn't pricey rehab, therapy and psychological reprogramming. It's a clear conscience. secupp@redsecupp.com
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#39. To: beyond the sea (#0)
... Amazing: For both his strengths and weaknesses, psychology manages to surgically remove Tiger, a man whose power and wealth have bought him more free will than most of us will ever have, from his own life Really, it is none of "our" business. Woods cheated on his spouse, as lots of males do. That is his personal business. He does not cheat on the golf course. Playing golf is what the public pays to see him do and how he earns his living. Woods never took any money from people by pretending to follow any particular code of conduct. Multi billion dollar corporations threw money at him to pitch their products because they thought he was popular. Now they are not throwing money at him because they think he is not popular. He is still one of the best golfers in the world, presuming distractions in his personal life don't make him lose his proficiency. For anybody who bought something because they had a certain image of the man, that is their problem, not his. The only thing they really knew about him was he's an excellent golfer. Their mistake to think good sportsman = person meeting their expecations in non-sports matters.
That is not completely or even close to true.
Woods never took any money from people by pretending to follow any particular code of conduct. That is not completely or even close to true. You have any quotes to back that up?
That is not completely or even close to true. You have any quotes to back that up? Woods never took any money from people by pretending to follow any particular code of conduct. ----- You will see. (I wonder why all his sponsors have pulled all his ads since this fiasco developed.) ;-)
I haven't heard of Nike killing his contract,and don't see them doing it. Being married to a beautiful blonde,being a billionaire,and now being a "playah" wid a dozen hot white bitches on the string just makes him a hero to their brutha base.
We'll see. I guess for now all most of the sponsors have done is pull his ads ....... until the suicide alert. **** Here are a couple for you, pete ..... What's the Difference between Santa and Tiger? ----- Santa stops at three Ho's. Tiger Woods' favorite Christmas carol? ----- I'm Dreaming Of a White Mistress ****
#120. To: wudidiz (#118)
lol
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#55. To: AGAviator (#39)
Woods never took any money from people by pretending to follow any particular code of conduct.
#110. To: beyond the sea (#55)
#114. To: AGAviator (#110)
Woods never took any money from people by pretending to follow any particular code of conduct.
#115. To: beyond the sea (#114)
(I wonder why all his sponsors have pulled all his ads since this fiasco developed.)
#117. To: sneakypete (#115)
I haven't heard of Nike killing his contract,and don't see them doing it.
#118. To: beyond the sea, sneakypete, thread (#117)
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