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Title: Are Dating Sites Scams?
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Published: Jun 25, 2010
Author: Turtle
Post Date: 2010-06-25 11:45:16 by Turtle
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I was sondering about this yesterday. My last girlfriend, before she met me, had signed up for one of those Chemistry/eHarmony/Match.com sites. She told me she had a few dates and they were catastrophes. They had nothing in common. And she paid money for this! I'll bet not one person out of ten thousand finds a mate on these sites. Out of curiosity I once took the test at Chemistry.com. They asked questions about the ratio of my ring and index finger (men have longer ring fingers due to testosterone in the womb). I consider such a ratio irrelevant in a relationship. They asked one question each about politics and religion -- which I have found to be exremely important in relationships. I'll bet the owners of these sites are making millions off of lonely desperate people. i'll bet they pay for a month and then let it lapse. But if people are signing up every day, well, there is a sucker born every minute. i'll bet I could do a better job as a matchmaker than these people.
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#1. To: Turtle, 4 (#0)
Luckily, I have absolutely nothing to contribute to the thread. Have you looked at ashleymadison.com ? Good luck with it.
You're making a mistake with 'relationships'. Just use ashleymadison.com for hooking up w/ married women who are bored (but secure) and just want a fling. Yeah, it costs money, but everyone knows why they're at the hotel room so you don't have to put up with a lot of touchy-feely bullshit, everyone goes home when you're done and someone else cleans up...love means never having to ask for cab fare. I still love their slogan "When Monogamy Becomes Monotony"...my only question is "when doesn't it?"
Man, my last five girlfriends have been married and at least ten years younger. Don't know about the romance, but the rest was first rate. ;)
Yeah, isn't amorality and playing a hand in destroying families fun?
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
It's all fun and games, until a pissed of husband hunts you down with a shotgun. I once knew a very kind man who had never committed any crimes until he found his wife in bed with another man and he simply blew him away. He was the only ex-con my mother ever allowed around her children.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
I've read that many years ago in the South it was legal for a man to kill his wife and her lover if he caught them in be together. I mean, honestly, how can you do anything to a husband or wife who catches their spouse in bed with someone else?
For it is not the wolf or any of the other beasts that would join the contest in any noble danger, but rather a good man. — Aristotle, Politics, Book IIX
It's only amoral by your definition, and yeah, it's fun. As for the rest, all of them are still with their spouses and families, nothing is 'destroyed.' At no time has anyone's arm been twisted...unless of course, she was into that.
Was it legal for the wife who cought her husband screwing around too? Lorena Bobbit knew a thing or two about crimes of passion. A bullet might have been cleaner, but she sure did make a point.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
No, it's amoral or immoral by most every definition of every society that has existed. Stop being a goddamned leftist relativist, that kind of non-logic only works on feminists. You're an evil guy. I won't say "man", you don't rise to the definition. Oh shut up. You have no idea what came out or may come out in the future. But it doesn't matter to you who gets hurt, as long as you get your pecker wet right? Oh, well then, because both participated in this horror, it's ok then. The bystanders who take the shrapnel are of no consequences. Good job on moral relativism, skippy. Here's hoping that the husband catches you with his wife someday and you get your just deserts. Don't bother responding, I have no time of day for people like you.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
Absolutely true in both the south and the western states - justifiable homicide. It should never have changed. imo
Lorena Bobbit knew a thing or two about crimes of passion. A bullet might have been cleaner, but she sure did make a point. I doubt any jury would find her guilty. Loreena Bobbitt was crazy.
For it is not the wolf or any of the other beasts that would join the contest in any noble danger, but rather a good man. — Aristotle, Politics, Book IIX
It's a good exercise of common law, and existing "law" should be ignored. Catch a needle dicked low self esteem person in bed with your spouse, feel free to open fire, I say. Real people aren't afraid of relationships and don't have to destroy others lives to try and fulfill their insecure little requirements. There is no end of single men or women who want only a friends with benefits setup to choose from, the requirement to go to a married person is born solely out of a hatred for oneself and others.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
Sounds like someone found his wife's AshleyMadison login on the computer, LOL. Glad you were able to get that off your chest, though. Life must be difficult for you if such things can get you so riled.
I figured you'd reply as such, since you have no moral base and no regard for your fellow human being. Sneering, sniveling wise cracks are the meat and mead of the relativist after all. But no, we're fine thanks. She, like me, rejects insecure sneaking, sniveling little losers like you. Peddle your wares to somebody else, kid, and grow up. And whatever you do, don't act surprised when you hear the knock on your door at midnight and the jacking of a slide after a wife breaks down and reveals her trysts with you to her husband. Bozo filter, engaged.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
Darn it, and here I thought we were opening a dialogue.
On the topic of dating sites, it's a place for people begging to have smoke blown up their butts. I'm outgoing and have hundreds of friends.......yeah, that's why you can't find a date. I'm a real hottie.......just look at that graduation picture from two decades back. I'm proportionate........once the pictures are elongated in photoshop. I'm active........when I'm not popping ho-ho's in my mouth with eyes glued to a reality tv marathon. Oh, and I NEVER get angry or tell a lie.......nope, not even one.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
With the games going on these days I couldn't imagine being in the dating world. The entire idea of human emotions and closeness seem almost laughably anathema to many singles that I know. Well, that's what they say anyway. What a cold, cold brave new world is being created.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
I love eharmony's "29 dimensions of compatibility". WTF does that mean? There aren't that many known dimensions in the physical universe yet. An acquaintance of mine got paired up with a guy from eHarmony.com who tested out as "Knight in Shining Armor" material on every level. She waxed the lance of Sir Knight on the third date and he ended up breaking things off after she told him she was pregnant and was never seen again. I learned later that she had "tragically miscarried" the child.
It's very hard for people to find a relationship with another when they don't even know thy self. And, if they did know thy self, then they wouldn't have any problem with spending some time alone until the right person comes along rather than having to have another person around to "complete" them. Sigh.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
That "you complete me" bullshit is the vilest lie ever foisted on the human psyche. If you're not whole when you meet someone, there's still gonna be a fractional human being there somewhere. The average couple I meet, mathematically, is about 0.8, total.
Exactly my sentiment. I cannot even imagine firing up the dating game today.
I understand why you feel so strongly, but as it involved ending alife one should at least make sure that the spouse - male or female - didn't initiate the liason, or wasn't equally at fault for the situation. I mean, if it turns out to be the suuation, all yo do in the end is amke the news media happy for giving them a tragic human interest story with a realironic twist.
The soul-mate stuff is the one that really, really gets me.
It stands to reason. "Self Esteem" has been taught to many younger folks (< 35) as being something granted by others for "just trying", not earned through your own action and successful work. It's not surprising then that folks now look to others to provide things like "completeness", since they do not know how to even begin supplying it to themselves.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
I've always cringed when I've heard women and pseudo-men say that word. Where does it come from anyway? Who originated it? Oprah? I seem to recall hearing it in the early-mid 1990's, but not really before that.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
This is a great free site. Craig's list is also a great place to meet good women.
It's hard to cut slack to somebody who walks through a home with family pictures on the walls, following a woman with a large ring on her finger up to the bedroom, seeing the open closet with a man's clothes in it, and then goes through with it anyway. Sorry, in those kinds of cases (which are the only ones I'm talking about, not one where the spouse is intentionally hiding her/his married status, in which case the unsuspecting partner is innocent of malice), then a shotgun shell delivered to the head is appropriate and just.
"The more artificial taboos and restrictions there are in the world, the more the people are impoverished.... The more that laws and regulations are given prominence, the more thieves and robbers there will be." - Lao Tzu, 6th century BC
How can that be? According to Newsweek: "No Company Screens Its Members More Rigorously" That right there is a "scientifically proven combat"......lol.....I mean "compatability matching system."
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
lol........nobody is smokin' what you are rollin' Mike.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
lol........if Carl Jung was correct, then all 6.6 billion of us are soul mates. People fall for this "soul mate" bit hook, line and sinker, but, between you and I, it's mostly desparation and lust, not a spiritual aspiration.
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
Craig's list is a choice that works better in some areas then in others. But in using any dating service, common sense and getting to know someone and finding out what ou are getting into is always allot smrter then to give the hormones the driver's sat in starting out with someone.
This is why, just like the Super Bowl, you play the game on a neutral field. Hotel room and/or equidistant location. That's astoundingly naive of you to think it plays out that way. Yeah, if a person does it the way you described in your first paragraph, they should be shot, not for shtupping someone else's spouse, but as a Darwinian imperative to remove stupid from the gene pool.
That right there is a "scientifically proven combat"......lol.....I mean "compatability matching system." I got this one. The fatal flaw in their system is that they assume guys are being honest. We're portrayed as rather dim animals but most of us are smart enough to pick the right sappy answer out of a field of generic questions, to wit: "If a woman you're attracted to or dating walks in to your apartment crying, do you: A) Ignore it and watch ESPN B) Get up, take her in your arms and ask her what is wrong C) Fart loudly and remind her that Thursdays are "steak and blowjobs" night D) Make a PMS remark or ask if she's "riding the cotton pony" this week. I took the test long ago. It's like 30 pages of foofy questions to gauge your sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're in.
Funny, must think somewhat alike, because I actually looked up the origin of that one, I guess I enjoy etymology or something. It was a term in the early part of this century to describe a "lacivious affair". It was not a flattering statement. Somewhere along the line when teh wimmins became 'labiated' and it was a heroic thing to be a 'single mom, blah, blah, blah..' it became popularized and turned on its head.
Wait a minute, Loddy. Who is this Joe Beam? I thought Jim Beam with the marriage helper. ; )
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
I think JimBeam helps fuel affairs more than he helps marriages. Candy is dandy, but liquor is quicker.
Sound advice Loddy. : )
"The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ... We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of." Edward Bernays, Father of Public Relations
The aforementioned eHarmony girl used to say that Jack (Daniels) put her on her back and Jose (Cuervo) put her on her knees. Assuming the best about her 'virtue', I presumed that meant passed out in the first instance and puking in the second. She said "yeah, that's about 75 percent right..."
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#2. To: Turtle (#0)
#3. To: Samuel Gray, Turtle, 4 (#2)
#4. To: Lod (#3)
#5. To: Samuel Gray (#4)
Man, my last five girlfriends have been married and at least ten years younger. Don't know about the romance, but the rest was first rate. ;)
#6. To: Samuel Gray, Turtle, 4 (#4)
#7. To: SonOfLiberty, Samuel Gray (#5)
#8. To: abraxas (#7)
It's all fun and games, until a pissed of husband hunts you down with a shotgun. I once knew a very kind man who had never committed any crimes until he found his wife in bed with another man and he simply blew him away.
#9. To: SonOfLiberty (#5)
isn't amorality and playing a hand in destroying families fun?
#10. To: Turtle (#8)
I've read that many years ago in the South it was legal for a man to kill his wife and her lover if he caught them in be together.
#11. To: Samuel Gray (#9)
It's only amoral by your definition,
and yeah, it's fun.
As for the rest, all of them are still with their spouses and families, nothing is 'destroyed.'
At no time has anyone's arm been twisted...unless of course, she was into that.
#12. To: Turtle, 4 (#8)
I've read that many years ago in the South it was legal for a man to kill his wife and her lover if he caught them in be together.
#13. To: abraxas (#10)
them in be together. Was it legal for the wife who cought her husband screwing around too?
#14. To: Lod (#12)
#15. To: SonOfLiberty (#11)
#16. To: Samuel Gray (#15)
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#17. To: SonOfLiberty (#16)
#18. To: Turtle (#0)
#19. To: abraxas (#18)
#20. To: abraxas (#18)
people begging to have smoke blown up their butts.
#21. To: SonOfLiberty (#19)
#22. To: abraxas (#21)
#23. To: SonOfLiberty, 4 (#19)
With the games going on these days I couldn't imagine being in the dating world.
#24. To: SonOfLiberty (#14)
"It's a good exercise of common law, and existing "law" should be ignored. Catch a needle dicked low self esteem person in bed with your spouse, feel free to open fire, I say."
#25. To: abraxas (#21)
#26. To: abraxas (#21)
#27. To: Lod (#25)
The soul-mate stuff is the one that really, really gets me.
#28. To: Turtle (#0)
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somanyfish.com
#29. To: Ferret (#24)
#30. To: Samuel Gray (#20)
#31. To: Ferret, all (#28)
Craig's list is also a great place to meet good women.
#32. To: Lod (#25)
#33. To: abraxas (#31)
"lol........nobody is smokin' what you are rollin' Mike."
#34. To: SonOfLiberty (#29)
#35. To: abraxas (#30)
How can that be? According to Newsweek: "No Company Screens Its Members More Rigorously"
#36. To: SonOfLiberty, 4 (#27)
interesting site about marriage, soul-mates, and more -
#37. To: SonOfLiberty, Lod (#27)
The soul-mate stuff is the one that really, really gets me. Where does it come from anyway?
#38. To: Lod (#36)
#39. To: abraxas, 4 (#38)
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