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All is Vanity See other All is Vanity Articles Title: Turtle’s Encounters with Some Vampires! While there does exist the occasional psycho lunatic who really does drink people’s blood, these people are so rare it’d take several lifetimes to meet one, unless you go out of your way by becoming an FBI profiler. What are much more common are what I’ve heard described as “emotional vampires,” and I’ve met several of these. They’re known as Personality or Character Disorders, and fall under various headings such as Antisocial, Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Personality Disorder. They all have certain traits in common. The main one is: it’s always someone else’s fault. It’s never their fault. This trait has been noticed for thousands of years, which is why in the story of the Garden of Eden Adam says, “The woman made me do it,” and Eve says, “The serpent made me do it.” It wasn’t their fault. It was someone else’s. Because it’s always someone else’s fault, they always portray themselves as victims, even if they don’t realize it. In fact, they can be quite good at convincing people they ARE victims. Because of this, if you first meet someone and they try to pluck at your heartstrings with stories of the awful things done to them, immediately put your guard up. Think about it this way: what kind of person would immediately tell you such intimate details of their life? And if they do it to you, don’t you think they do it to everyone? They lie. Oftentimes they don’t even know they’re lying, because to successfully lie to someone else you first have to successfully lie to yourself. They can be quite charming and manipulative, to the point you don’t even know you’re being manipulated. If they’re telling you stories about the awful things that happened to them, the first impulse of many men is to protect them and fix them. Ha ha! Suckers! You’re being manipulated! They don’t want to be fixed! They want attention and to suck your innards dry, then cast away the empty husk that used to be your life! They can make you feel special. You’re not. You’re interchangeable with the rest of the suckers. Again I’m going to repeat: if they’re telling you intimate details of their lives, why wouldn’t they be telling them to everyone? They are deficient in gratitude, not to mention guilt, not to mention empathy. Since to them it’s someone else’s fault, why should they feel guilty or grateful or empathic? That’s why they never say, “Thank you.” The worst emotional vampire (she appeared to be Borderline/Histrionic) I ran across some years ago told me, in the first hour I talked to her: “Men are responsible for all the problems in the world.” “Some of my relatives tried to molest me when I was in my teens.” “None of my relationships work out because all the men have baggage from past relationships.” “None of them will accept my career.” The best one of all was…”This is about me, not you!” Nothing was her fault. It was always men’s fault. And if it’s someone else’s fault, then it’s okay to emotionally abuse them. And sooner or later (and usually it’s sooner) they start to emotionally abuse people. Sometimes it becomes physical abuse. If you meet someone who immediately becomes intimate (by telling you intimate details of his or her life), who immediately treats you as if you are special, who makes you want to immediately protect or fix them, and blames their problems on other people, STAY AWAY! I’m going to repeat this, too: for many men their first impulse is to fix, protect and save a woman like this. You can’t do any of those things for her. She’s not so easy as a flat tire. Some people unfortunately fall in love with these people, ignoring the warning signs – which are always bad feelings about them; anxiety, tenseness, and guilt (wondering if YOU have the problem and not them). The reason you’re having those bad feelings is because your soul is being sucked out! These people are relatively common and wreak in the lives of every person they come into contact with. This is a free warning, courtesy of Turtle!
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I knew one of those. In fact, I'll tell you her name. She is rather well-known in anti-NWO circles. Her name is Pam Schuffert. None of this was romantic in any way. I met her one on one. I donated money to her many times. I was a fucking moron. TO those that question my use of the word "was", well I was even worse back then. .
I was a fucking moron. LOL!! Of course, she MADE you donate money many times.
Did I say that? No. It was my fault. .
This sense of personal responsibility does not correlate to Turtle's narrative of de ebil women MAKING de men care and donate money and continue to come back for more multiple helpings of crappy treatment despite obvious warning signs. Four words Turtle will never utter: It was my fault. lol
Women do know what buttons to push. Next to men, they are masters at it. It's a shame that we have to be on guard all the time to keep that from happening. Otherwise they can catch us off guard. Our fault is in letting it happen. It's their fault for launching the offensive in the first place. .
Men know what buttons to push on women, if they want to do it. Most don't. The more narcissistic women learn to what buttons to push on men. Some pretend none of it exists.
If narcissists are by definition enamored with themselves and this trait is blatantly OBVIOUS for even the blind to see, why would any sane person seek to have a relationship with a them? Perhaps we have a case of narcissists attracting narcissists......
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