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Title: Waiting for Superman
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Published: Sep 20, 2011
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Post Date: 2011-09-20 22:09:27 by Eric Stratton
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#2. To: Eric Stratton (#0)
Thank you for posting this......although I do not have time to view it this evening, I have been anxious to watch it for sometime.
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I watched it too and it only confirmed what I have long said is the problem: layers and layers of bureaucracy that do not benefit students. I was impressed with the fruits of the charter schools represented in this documentary and sad for the parents who were not fortunate enough to win the education lottery. Jeffrey Cannon's approach is difficult to attain as it encompasses the education of a child from birth through college. However, in the locations where he manifests his education vision, it makes the most sense to not only educate the children but also the parents or caregivers who are illiterate in what it takes for these children to succeed. Rhee had it right when she acknowledges that so many are too invested in the interests of the adults and not the education of the children. I was not surprised that the union refused to even vote on her proposal, even when her proposal offered substantial benefit for effective teachers.
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It's all about money and wealth. The lipservice to our kids is just that, talk. Two problems. One is that often the parents themselves do not have the necessary body of knowledge and ability to home school. Just because you are blessed in your household to have such knowledge and abilities, doesn't make it so for all others. Second, most of these folks are living paycheck to paycheck and do not have the luxury of one parent, often there is only one parent, staying home to school the children......especially not without "assistance" of some sort. Putting food in your kids' mouths and making sure they have a roof over their heads is not a "meaningless activity".....remember most of these parents are NOT skilled labor and don't make a lot of money. What they want is to provide for their kids what they did not have. This is to be admired, but we cannot put everyone on the same par as you Eric. They are not where you are, do not have the skills and abilities that you and your wife have that make it possible for you to home school. Believe me, I am a great advocate of home schooling, but in regards to economics and literacy it isn't an option for many parents. I understand this as neither of my parents graduated high school. How could they home school? Both were working just to feed and clothe and shelter five kids. Yes, the fundamental problem is a woeful lack of principles coupled with the willful act of chasing money and wealth. You can't serve two masters. Sigh.
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once again the single-parent ones are 99% results of a broken down moral structure which also has stemmed from a gimme-gimme-gimme-good-times-for-eberyone approach. You are not asked to give freely of your pity Eric. Pity is worse to give than hate. : ) You are asked to give your compassion. I am one of those single parents, Eric. Not because I ever wanted to be one. The suffering I endured through that process tempered my very soul in ways I could not have imagined prior to it happening. All suffering has the potential to draw us nearer to God, that is the gift and purpose of it.
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they decided that to fuck around, literally, for purposes of enjoyment primarily while overriding all other morals and common sense flags in their lives in doing so, and w/o any regard whatsoever for the children that they could likely bring into this world, which includes millions today that seem to think that having kids while single is the "way to go," and it's those that are the problem! My self control was not the root of the problem, Eric. My "devices" were not the factor....well maybe the device too much trust. In such situations there is a betrayer and then there is the one who has been betrayed. In my situation, one child was under two and one was in my belly. My children were created and delivered within the vows of my marriage, but only one parent was keeping their vows.
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lol....there is a reason why they say, "Hind sight is 20/20" but even so I wouldn't trade a clarity of vision for my lovely daughters. It's easy to see the red flags in the midst of the demolition, not so easy when you have convinced yourself that the house is built on a solid foundation that can endure. : )
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#3. To: abraxas (#2)
#4. To: Eric Stratton (#3)
#5. To: abraxas (#4)
#6. To: Eric Stratton (#5)
While watching that, all I could think was that if these parents, at least the capable ones, put as much effort for a few hours a day into their own kids' education as they do pursuing other relatively meaningless activities or the time involved in "helping them with their homework," and homeschooled instead, much of the problem would vaporize and the rest would be put forth to the bright daylight.
#7. To: abraxas (#6)
#8. To: Eric Stratton (#7)
We are a cut above living like paupers as a result of our decision to homeschool and do what's necessary there. I have little pity for some that complain yet that have wealth when we are literally on the precipice in strict adherence to moral sacrifice to a strong morality.
#9. To: abraxas (#8)
#10. To: Eric Stratton (#9)
but if your single-parenthood is of your own devices and prompted by the fact that you had absolutely no self-control when you were younger, I simply don't know what to say.
#11. To: abraxas (#10)
#12. To: Eric Stratton (#11)
... unless it was obvious ahead of time but you went in purely on emotion.
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