This is being passed around among Facebook users like a pipe at a college party:
This reminds me of how much I hate the word deserve. In fact, it is the word to which my life philosophy (one I share with very many people) is most strongly opposed. Im more of a you get what you put in kind of guy. In the realm of sexual relationships, that would be called Spenglers Universal Law of Gender Parity. If we all deserve the ideal then if the supply of the ideal is not plentiful enough to meet the demand, some demanders of the ideal e.g. women, will be left with a less-than-optimal outcome. And if they are told that they deserve this ideal, the fact that they dont have the ideal leaves them pissed off and resentful of the thing that didnt meet their expectations e.g. men.
Poster Comment:
Go ahead. Give them what they say they want. See how far it gets you.