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Title: Does ANYONE here not have "out of wedlock" kids in your family or extended family? How has this harmed society?
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Published: Feb 29, 2012
Author: me
Post Date: 2012-02-29 08:26:22 by Artisan
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Comments: 28

Is marriage irrelevant? I think definitely not. This planned breakdown of society is very tragic. The first generation of this accepted trend of kids without marriage, at least (generally) had financially stable married parents to help w/ the grandkids.

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The next generation (the kids who were born out of wedlock) now has even less familial stability, parents with divorces, exs, halves, steps, financial woes, misery. THEIR kids are much worse off than even they were. Good grief make it stop.

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#8. To: Artisan (#0)

"...Good grief make it stop."

Well, let's see. How about discouraging the passing out of birth control to high school kids to start with. Teach the young girls pussy control instead of them giving themselves away to just any guy in town. Teach women that education comes first before getting hooked up with a guy (especially a guy who has no respectable job).

It's not about where you came from but where you are going. If you have a structured state of mind and have a no-nonsense attitude, you will attract those similar to yourself. This also applies to relationships. The women need to focus on education and improving themselves. As for relationships, if they respect themselves, they would never get involved in a relationship where the guy is just using them for the sex. In fact, they would practice pussy control and stay focused on their career and if the man really sincerely wanted to be with this woman, he would have his shit together. Including his credit history because that is one thing that some women look at because they want to know if he is capable of paying his bills on time.

Marriage is not a thing of the past and is nothing to scoff at. People still do marry and start families. It's really about how you feel about relationships. If you feel marriage is bullshit then of course, you are going to have children out of wedlock.

I was born out of wedlock. In fact, my birthright was sold from me to a member of my mom's side of the family. I got screwed badly of my own bloodline and inheritance. I didn't find out the truth about this until several years ago. But, that does not mean I continue the same cycle as they did. In fact, I want to be married and refuse to be swept off my feet unless the guy has integrity and nobleness of character. Of course I like kids, but I also want them to have a future. A real future. And a real future starts with the parents who are thinking about the children's future rather than just screwing around.

And btw, not all blacks fall into the category of poverty-stricken, illiterates. I have had the privilege of meeting very successful black business owners who lived in middle classed neighborhoods.

purplerose  posted on  2012-02-29   16:50:12 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  

what you say makes a lot of sense. the old adage water seeks its own level is very applicable to the kind of people one attracts & chooses to associate with.

Artisan  posted on  2012-03-01   0:57:56 ET  Reply   Untrace   Trace   Private Reply  

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