See other Editorial Articles
Title: I love you son.
Source:
My heart
URL Source: [None]
Published: Oct 1, 2013
Author: Titorite
Post Date: 2013-10-01 04:17:55 by titorite
Keywords: None
Views: 2161
Comments: 66
I would not of done this publicly , but she no longer wishes to address me privately. She does not take my calls. "I wait" on the phone to ring, for "the" call. The call that will bring me my sons voice. I Pray every time , every call, that it will be my son. She never announces my son or herself. I only know it is them by the first few minutes of silence echoing back my "hellos". She does not accept my skype request. I do not know where exactly my son sleeps. I have been given what I thought was a house number turns out is an apartment block number. I'd like to send my son some diaper money. I have no good address to send anything too. She told me that her sister was paying for the move and my sister was paying for the divorce. I thought that was way too much of my sister. That isn't her normal way but I wasn't gonna look a godsend or a gift horse in the mouth. Turns out I shoulda. She told me I would see my son often as I liked and that she would not ever interfere in our relationship. That he loved his daddy and she would never interfere with that or take that away from him. We made out by the lake for one last time, made love for one last time on that last night and I thought we parted on good terms... with-in her first few calls She tells me that her old flame keeps her and my son busy around town... She said alot of things. In the month of September I got 3 or 4 short conversations each one five minutes or less the shortest around 2 minutes. All ending with (my soon to be EX) wife yelling at me or just hanging up on me. She told me not to hold out hope ..... and hung up on me. After much communication with many authorities on both sides of the border she was somehow persuaded to make contact on the 29th. I got my first full 15 minutes in a month and not a moment more. My sons time limited on a leash. It ain't right. He has done no wrong, there is no reason to deprive him contact with his father who loves and adores him. For Fifteen minutes I was alive. Now I am back in waiting mode. Playing the message game.I call, they ignore. I become A zombie of a train wreck stumbling diligently through a crisis. I miss my son so much. I have no address to write to. I have asked for help from every resource I can but the response I got was not good. I had my options explained to me by the department of the state. Because this is an international affair. She is holding my son against my current consent in her home nation for judicial favoritism. Once I understood my options I said "yes" I would like to proceed with the one and/or all those options in order to best facilitate my sons return. Whatever is best. I was then told nothing would be done. That I had no case. I am not sure why the department of the state went to great lengths to explain to me my options that were available when they had no intention of following through. It makes no sense to me and the frustration is only compounded. As of this moment I am unwillingly unaware of where exactly my 3 year old son sleeps. I do not sleep well. I have called everyone. Everyone. NCME,State,Local,Feds, the attorneys. I don't know what else to do. Pray and wait. She was supposed to keep him for just awhile and allow for constant contact. Currently she intends to keep him forever, and makes as little & limited contact as possible over the phone and only on her whim for as I said, they do not take my calls. They block my friend requests. They shroud the mailing address in secrecy. And the online taunts were not necessary. Why taunt me over with-holding contact and communication with my son? I am not taunting now. I am not threatening. I am begging and pleading. Please let me talk to my son freely. Please let me see my son. Please bring my son home.
[Thread Locked] Private Reply Ignore Thread
Top • Page Up • Full Thread • Page Down • Bottom/Latest
Comments (1-26) not displayed.
.
.
.
#27. To: strepsiptera, titorite (#25)
I don't remember one instance where making threats turned out to be a good approach when dealing with this sort of matter :) You and your son have eternal life. You can catch up when you visit after this life. Maintain your sanity for your son's sake. Develop a calm understanding that this kind of crap happens here and now but, is a short moment in time as you look from an eternal perspective. I promise, you will see him again. Live a long, healthy life and build memories to share with him as you both move closer to Paradise. Write to him and save the letters. Talk about him in your prayers. Don't obsess but contemplate your future time together. It is coming and it will be glorious for the very reasons you suffer. ~~~~~~~~ I completely agree. My child is involved. Contact is limited and fading. I won't be making any threats. She has already accused me of threatening her for daring to want to speak with my son and wanting to spend time with him. That is her , that is what she says. For my part, their will be no threats , none made, none accepted. No threats . My son is too important to be petty. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) (It's a more positive message)
You personally should not make threats. What your lawyer does is another issue entirely. You are going to need a court order saying that you have a right to communicate with and see your kid.
Accusations of harassment are a standard tactic in cases where one family member is trying to isolate someone from another family member. Whether you perceive what you are doing as "begging and pleading" or "threatening" is irrelevant. Your lawyer should be aggressive in enforcing your rights as a parent. If it is your lawyer doing it according to the law, it cannot be held against you.
.
IT has been over 72 hours since they last made contact. I have not been informed of my sons where abouts or his health and safety and well being. I am not informed of what her plans or intent is. I have no idea when they will make contact. My life is on hold on awaiting my son. The authorities are of little help. Attorneys are not returning my emails and phone calls. I do not know where my son is. God help me. If any of you can help me I am willing to accept the help. I am not even sure what all kinds of help I need but I know my need is great. Praise be to God. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) (It's a more positive message)
Give it some time. It probably doesn't seem like so much time to her. It's not really a lot of time. 72 hours? I could do that standing on my head. ;) You don't want to be here though... I can tell you 1000 things not to do. Here's a couple to do: 1. Get a lawyer 2. Sit on your hands until the appt. 3. Remember to keep the phone calls down to 10 a day or even less. (If you're hitting 10 or more per hour probably time to look at cuttin back) 4. Pray. God answers. Just don't let it get out of hand where you're basically just trying to con God into letting you have your way. Again. 5. Relax, breathe, be calm relax, breathe... /sermon You don't want to be here though... I can tell you 1000 things not to do. Here's a couple to do: 1. Get a lawyer 2. Sit on your hands until the appt. 3. Remember to keep the phone calls down to 10 a day or even less. (If you're hitting 10 or more per hour probably time to look at cuttin back) 4. Pray. God answers. Just don't let it get out of hand where you're basically just trying to con God into letting you have your way. Again. 5. Relax, breathe, be calm relax, breathe... very good advice. "Even to the death fight for truth, and the LORD your God will battle for you". Sirach 4:28
2. Sit on your hands until the appt. You need a lawyer if you're going to court. Best to stay out of court though. Better to deal with it out of court. Court is a long, drawn out, often unfair process where the ones who benefit the most are lawyers and court employees. IF YOU HAVE TO GO TO FAMILY COURT YOU ARE FAR BETTER OFF WITH A LAWYER. It is unwise in almost all family law cases to self represent as one is much too emotionally involved. You can get a lawyer just to talk to or whatever if nothing else. Take it easy it's mostly just your instincts tearing at you because all of a sudden your world's been shocked and awed and the provider/protector status reduced to emotional wreck. It's a big sudden change and in this arguably unnatural world we have these seemingly tragic restraints on what we've been hardwired for eons to do as our ancestors have done for millenia before us, generation after generation.... fucked and bred and raised offspring. Transcend... rise above... You're going to make it through this. You have the address, do not lie, you already sent the cops here. I wish you would have kept this private but so be it. It was your sister Karen that paid for the entire move. She knows that I loved you but she also told me, if you cannot do it for yourself, do it for your son. Call her, she will not lie to you nor spare you, she is not that way. I told you it was my sister that paid for the move to spare you. You have physically, psychologically, emotionally abused be. You chose another woman over your family. As I have asked you prior our departure. Is she really worth all that? You said "yes, I like her a lot" I hope she is worth it Titorite, I really do because this is why I accepted to leave, you wanted your freedom, you have it. To this day, you still resent me for "forcing you" to man up and get a job to support your family. Internet and gaming were your priority, not your family and certainly not your son. I can count on my fingers the times you bathed him and fed him in a year. I left because I had enough of being with a cheating and physically violent louse. He needs his father but he also needs his mother. You constantly threaten to kick me to the curb or send me at the woman's shelter when you "wanted me out of the house" I have worked for more than a years to save our marriage, you were not interested, you sat on your ass and let me do all the work, even call the marriage counselor. You wish to find another woman to make you happy... what the hell are you waiting for? In the end, this is what motivated to leave. This is an exerpt I stumbled upon my own computer station because you did not think to log off when I tried to log in my mail. "And yeah I love her , but I love another a whole lot more... and I can not have that one so I accept it.. and in that acceptance my eye is turning to everyone else for compassion to the woman I can't have rather than my wife....and if it wern't for the wife my chances for being with the chic become alot better....fucking chivieraly!" And NO, we did not part in good terms. We stopped being in good terms when you went behind my back one last time with the woman you love but cannot have, back on the 26th of august and I offered you a choice and do right by me, by us on the 26th of August, you refused and I kicked you out of the bedroom. Now I see you are up to the same, turning to everyone else for compassion when you cannot admit to yourself that everything that has happened, you willingly worked toward it. As your mother told me on the phone, you did it all to yourself. I am trying to rebuild a life here, in my hometown for our son. You wanted an answer, you have one. You have a computer, you bought a cam at biglots to communicate with our son, use it, if you have to install windows to use it as you complained that it only took windows drivers to work, install windows instead if complaining FFS or waiting that someone who does actually work to bring you another PC system that has windows installed on it! I have not received any skype request in my mail, guess I have to log on to see what is up in the wind considering I only used skype to communicate with my mother which you lovingly referred to as a bitch on a weekly basis. You have the home address where we live, don't lie to those people. You already sent the cops here. Lord knows that I waited more than 4 years and x beatings before I decided to give them a call. Never call the cops, right? Our son is better than fine, I shared several pictures of him with your mother and plan to share more. You decided to go your own way on facebook on the 26th where I carefully explained to you that I would have to block you so I do not see the name of "the other woman you love" pop on the "people you may know" so I would not have another mental breakdown. Like the time you thought it would be a smashing idea to rent the place right next to where we lived and go live there, not 5 feet away "with the woman you love" and her girlfriend. Yep, I broke down that day and I didn't feel like going through this again and I explained this to you. You have lied to me, you have cheated and went behind my back for over a year and a half with that woman. This is why I have no desire to hear your voice everyday, this is why I offered to set up a calling schedule of 1 day a week because our son is only 3 years old and barely talks, you do all the talking. Not to mention that his attention span is minimal, I have to stay close to the phone to make sure he does not wander off. Do you understand yet? Do you understand why? I am not cutting all ties as I was advise by many, many people. I have offered that we communicate, through e-mails to schedule talks between you and your son. Daily calls, several times a day, I can't have that and I told you as much in our e-mail communications. I also asked you to counter offer how many times a week you wanted to talk to our son as long as it would not be every damned days. The same night, the cops paid us a visit. Thanks, you could have written back instead of sending the cops. I ask you please, do not make me hate you. If you lie in public again, I will not hesitate to post our correspondence as I have nothing to hide. Not from you, not from Freedom4ums and not from the authorities. You signed a paper allowing our son to cross the Canadian border and I will not hesitate either to scan and post what was signed between us if you persist to continue in that vein. As I have told you in our communications, do not hide to the authorities that you have signed such papers by your own volition. And, please, keep it in e-mails or talk to friends, private messages...shit like that. It would be sad to do our dirty laundry in public on this forum. I mean, come on, your sister did not dish out all that cash because she did not like me and wanted me to go away... but you did and told me so on many instances... and I always replied, never without my son. Jesus Christ, you have a brain, use it! For all the other members of freedom4ums, sorry it has come to this, my apologies if I made some members uncomfortable. I barely come here now in consideration to titorite but I cannot, will not stand for half baked truths, omissions and lies when it comes to my persona. Regards to all members. SilverStorm The 25 Rules of Disinformation 18. Emotionalize, Antagonize, and Goad Opponents. If you can’t do anything else, chide and taunt your opponents and draw them into emotional responses which will tend to make them look foolish and overly motivated, and generally render their material somewhat less coherent. Not only will you avoid discussing the issues in the first instance, but even if their emotional response addresses the issue, you can further avoid the issues by then focusing on how “sensitive they are to criticism”.
I hope you don't mind my asking but did you have to move so far away, SilverStorm - and to another country? Do you really think that's in your son's best interest? Children need good bonds with their father too -- not just long distance communications and photos. Absent fathers are a big reason for why society is so messed up. Fathers who don't want to be absent are something of a rarity these days. You could arrange for supervised visitation if you think that's necessary until your son is older. I've heard that children can choose which parent they want to live with when they're about 12 or so. Possibly sons would be more apt to choose their father if there has been interference with regular visitation. Consider also that if a child is separated from a parent at the age of two until they're three, they have been separated by then for a third of their life. By the time they're four, it would be half their life and so on. If you can spare your child that difficulty, please do.
------- "They're on our left, they're on our right, they're in front of us, they're behind us...they can't get away this time." -- Col. Puller, USMC
Not that I want to get in the middle of this, but it's my impression that she had no other option. She wrote that she went to her hometown to try to build a life for her and her child. I would assume that she has the support of family and friends there.
To question is to value the ideal of truth more highly than the loyalties to nation, religion, race, or ideology.
Can I see my son, Why wont you accept my skype invitation? I have a non exact address. Your mom lives in a fourplex. I need an exact address. please do play around like this. Please do not secret our son from me. You married me in make-up remember. All our wedding photos have me with a black eye. I did not call the cops when you hit me. I took it because I thought I was supposed too. Because I had no desire to get even. I forgave because I loved! But those wedding photos reamin. And I am not lying. I have no need to lie. We had a rocky marriage and that is why I wanted out. Remember writing me the love letter right before I went to sit out my time. The one where you admitted to lying to the cops because you were too scared to tell them the truth? I have nothing to fear from the truth, I have never feared the truth and I would rather be honest to a fault than be deceitful! Please let me speak to our son. Please let me see our son. Please return home with our son. I was going to do the room mate thing and let you stay here. You know that. That is why you invented the story that you did. You lied to me about leos passport about who was paying for what,...That is unacceptable. You threaten to never let me see my son again and tell me to give up hope on ever getting him back. You ended it all with a lovely tiraid saying that would be your last communication with me ever. And after that you ignored my IMs and my pleas. OF course I am panicked and in crisis. I begged you not to do this! You said you wouldn't. And here we are all the same. ... You know my camera doesn't have to work to see leopold. Only you are in charge of that... as you spelled out and lorded over me in your last communication with me. You are the one in control. Not me. So I remain begging , please let me see my son on skype. Is he eating solid food yet? Have you got him potty trained yet? Are you allowing him naps yet? These are things I have to speak with an adult about, so when I ask to speak to an adult about it..... IT would be preferable if I got an adult as opposed to hanging up on me or ignoring me. Yes I called the authorities and asked for their assistance. And they are assisting me. I may not be to thrilled with the speed and progress but the wheels are turning now. Please cooperate fully. Shoot. I just noticed the time stamps.... Well it stands. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Thanks for accepting my phone call moments ago. Still I would like speak with our son for more than 10 minutes. I would like to be addressed like an adult by an adult when I ask about my childs welfare. He can not tell me if he is going potty by himself or if he is eating solid food yet. And please stop coaxing Leopold to say good bye after two minutes of conversation. That is unreasonable. In fact please have your mother stop coaxing him on the phone. I do not appreciate playing the good bye game after two minutes of conversation. I do not appreciate her correcting him on how to express his joy. "Yea" and "awesome" are fine words to say in joy. Correcting him to say "bravo" every time instead is just ....ridiculous. why? why do that? When I speak with my son I would like to do so unadulterated. I don't know but more important to me.... how is his potty training,is he eating solids,When do you expect that I will be allowed to see me son on skype or some other means.... Can I get an exact address of where your keeping our son? ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Sorry. that was supposed to be a PM to GLM there not a public post. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
I miss you so much Leopold. I love you. Daddy is trying to see you as best he can. Silver if you read this please give me the address of where you are keeping him. Everyone else if you would like to help me in my cause please say a prayer for me . over 78 days... I still have not yet had one full hour of talk time with my son...contact is always limited and short and as of this last week... she has moved and refused to tell me where. I tried reaching out to her sister... nothing... The law says what she is doing is illegal....Hiding a child from the other parent. I wish I knew where my son was... I miss him so much.. I love you son ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Thank you all for you prayers
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
For whatever reason your mother could not make it yesterday, it's ok. I love you son. I think on you every moment. Daddy loves you. I am gonna keep on searchg for you. I'll never stop. Daddy loves you more than life it self Leo.....I will find you son. Daddy loves you.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Communication has continued to be sporadic. Last night ice and snow shut down the power to several portions of the Montreal area. But Nancy was unaffected. She had decided that chicken dinner with "her" family was more important and that despite confirming with me in writing eariler in the day, instead I did not merit a phone call over the change in plans and bad weather and Leopold does not get to hear his daddies loving voice. She told me this by email at around 9 am. She offered to make it up at two pm today but their is no sign she even bothered to try. No messages nada. So I think I have done all I can for you from down here son. Now I'm gonna try to come see you in person. As Nancy said she'd let me see you. Even put it in writing and now she is in hiding. But boy howdy her new boyfriend has posted pictures of their balcony online. St laurent looks like a possibility but I hope not. Then again you maybe in rawdon. Maybe still in Laval or la salle. I do not know. I am gonna bring your christmas gifts with me. I plan on seeking assistance from the ministry of justice in the efforts to locate my son once I arrive there. I have a court date for January 19 regardless regarding this whole affair. I believe she is finally for full custody no contact. But my french is not perfect. I DO KNOW that she did not leave my house till September 4th. and that is the day she left our home with our child. Not August (aout) 2nd as her notification alleges and in the same pattern, their are more "inconsistencies" in her filling. I have never missed a court date I have been properly informed of. Not in my life. I show up to my court dates. I'll show up to this one... at the request of the Quebeecer government! I am on my way. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
I was refused entry at the Canadian border. So basiclly , barring a mirical I have no clue what can be done. She has my son in Quebec, and is refusing telephone contact, I can not skype from the road but she has been sketchy about the skyping too.I have filed a hauge act for return custody. My point of contact refuses to forward my proof of income to the canadian central authority. Whats more I am not even sure my application was sent to the proper people. It should of been sent to the quebec central authority in french. But that has not been confrimed to me. I had intended to turn in my pay check stubs and recycling recipts in person and continue the process in person so as to cut out the middle man.I also need to get an arbatraitor and a translator and a Quebecer lawyer, But I am not allowed into canada apparently. Under penalty of incarceration for the high crime of being incarcerated in my past. A self serving looping of persacution. So my options seem to of run out. I have no clue how to see my son or speak to my son. I love my son with all my heart. I meant to do my best by him, instead his mother manipulated a situation, kept me awake for 5 days (or so, I lost count) insisting I had not earned the right to sleep, She has my baby, and she believes she has the right to deny him his fathers love. I am ready for this nightmare to end. Pray god, I pray that you look after my son. Keep him safe. I would ask you all to say prayers for my son and his safty. He is all that matters. He deserves the very best. One day he will be old enough to look for me himself. He will find me seeking him out as well. I love you son. I love you with the whole of my heart. Your daddy loves you forever and ever till the end of my days, I will seek you out always till we find each other again one day. I love you. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
The 13th of december was the last time I was allowed to see my sons face and hear his voice by his Captor. I tell my story to everyone willing to listen despite my assurances that mine is not a happy story.... I tell anyone and everyone everything with that kind of complete honesty that some find off putting... They all say the same thing, "Thats kidnapping". I just wanna see my son at this point.... let him know I love him... Lord knows my son has to be ubber unhappy right now for her actions. I hope his acting out has been minimal... I pray the replacement has not done anything to bad.. but given his judgment I have concerns... Court comes soon..In Quebec Canada. in 30 days. The distance from my boy is wrong.. if the boy feels evenm half as much pain in his toddlers heart then she is doing him no service whatso ever... I'm still trying my best son. Daddy loves you. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
I miss ya buddy. Daddy still seeking you out. I love you son.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
I was in court today. I have travel thousands of miles and fought tooth and nail for any and all legal help and my estranged wife could not even be bothered to show up. That is of how little importance it was to her. The court date has been postponed . Other arrangements are being made. I love my son and he loves me. How could you use him to hurt me? Why are you denying him my voice ? I love him, I want him to know that and yet the mother does not care enough about the son to make sure he receives his fathers love but instead BLOCKS his father. Everything is still up in the air but the right choices can be made at any time. I am currently out of minutes on my phone but my mothers cell phone number remains the same. Your lawyer can also contact my lawyer. I don't understand. I am not threatening anything other than daring to show our son I love him. How is that a threat? I know you read this. I know you follow me around online. You can speak to me. You can let me show our son I love him. You can stop being afraid of past mistakes and start making correct choices. For him. For his best interest, it is never to late to do the right thing. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
To: All I was in court today. I have travel thousands of miles and fought tooth and nail for any and all legal help and my estranged wife could not even be bothered to show up. That is of how little importance it was to her. The court date has been postponed . Other arrangements are being made. I love my son and he loves me. How could you use him to hurt me? Why are you denying him my voice ? I love him, I want him to know that and yet the mother does not care enough about the son to make sure he receives his fathers love but instead BLOCKS his father. Everything is still up in the air but the right choices can be made at any time. I am currently out of minutes on my phone but my mothers cell phone number remains the same. Your lawyer can also contact my lawyer. I don't understand. I am not threatening anything other than daring to show our son I love him. How is that a threat? I know you read this. I know you follow me around online. You can speak to me. You can let me show our son I love him. You can stop being afraid of past mistakes and start making correct choices. For him. For his best interest, it is never to late to do the right thing. To the abuser and wife batterer I did not show up in court on the say of my lawyer. The divorce and custody hearing were delayed due to the allegation and paperwork you have filed accusing me of Kidnapping, thus postponing everything. If you would have acted in all fairness and not have accused me of kidnapping, which we both know is false, I was to be in court yesterday. By your own action, you have caused everything to be delayed...I have no wish to remain legally your wife and was looking forward to that court date, It was postponed by your own actions. Cease those false charges, it can lead to no good considering everyone that is involved. You have no clue whom will get hurt by proxy of those false allegation. You have proven by your own actions that you are a loose cannon and this is what I state in public, I am afraid of you. You beat the shit out of me in front of Leo, more than once. It never stopped you to see your son scream while you were "loosing it" You need professional help for your anger, you see red, you loose it and are not in control of your actions, that alone makes you a dangerous person considering, you refuse to recognize that you have that in you, refuse to acknowledge that huge problem. More than once, in the presence of your mother you asked her "give me a reason as to why I shouldn't beat her" If you cannot see a problem there, I do, so does a lot of people. You are a loose canon, you do not understand that no means no, I requested anonymity because I was afraid that you would show up here, despite the weekly communications you had with Leopold. That was not enough, you kept pushing for the address and phone number so at this, I decided to cut all ties. If you really wanted Leo to have your Christmas gift, you could have sent them to the address you were already provided, he would have received them as he did your previous halloween greeting card. You did not need our home address, that is just an excuse. You damned right I kept tab on you, you are a person whom cannot be trusted. Now I was told that you will have a hearing on kidnapping allegation on the third of March while the divorce and custody hearing has been pushed back in April. Again, keep in mind whom you are implicating by accusing me of kidnapping, who is implicated by proxy by those charges. You are so engrossed in the cult of self, me myself and I that it is impossible for you to see the bigger picture. You are a dangerous and obsessive individual, and it is true what they say, some women just cannot get away from their abuser, they will pursue them. Somehow, Leo knew. I was awaken on the morning of the 19th by a blood curdling scream around 5 AM, he was crying his eyes out. Never ignore the signs, I take that as an omen. Now if that old woman is with you, I have tried to call but got no answer and her mailbox was full. The 25 Rules of Disinformation 18. Emotionalize, Antagonize, and Goad Opponents. If you can’t do anything else, chide and taunt your opponents and draw them into emotional responses which will tend to make them look foolish and overly motivated, and generally render their material somewhat less coherent. Not only will you avoid discussing the issues in the first instance, but even if their emotional response addresses the issue, you can further avoid the issues by then focusing on how “sensitive they are to criticism”.
Can I just see our son? Pleae? this isn't fair to him or me. Put our shit aside and think of him. You an be there pedro , your sister, bring everyone but let our son see his dad. You can call again. You call us. At the hotel park avenue room two oh eight. I have his Christmas gifts with me. I just want to give Leo a hug and let him know I love him,. Please allow him this. All line of communication remain open. My soul concern is our son. I don't care about anything else . I would never do anything to hurt Leopold. You know this in your heart of hearts. Please call, please. Think of Leopold, please stop hurting him by with holding his fathers love.... Please let me tell him I love him. PLEASE se vou ple, Oh god please Nancy I will do anything you ask. Anything. You have me by the balls here. Your hurting me and him. Just please think of Leopold and let our son see his father. I don't hate you, and I love him. I'm sorry we could not work out but please don't hurt Leo be refusing to allow him his father. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
I love you Leopold ... I love you.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Also there is a Coptic church behind this hotel. I will be going their for services Sunday if they are doing services Sunday or just as soon as they have services. You can bring Leo by their in full public safety to visit if your willing. Please consider it.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
To: SilverStorm Can I just see our son? Pleae? this isn't fair to him or me. Put our shit aside and think of him. You an be there pedro , your sister, bring everyone but let our son see his dad. You can call again. You call us. At the hotel park avenue room two oh eight. I have his Christmas gifts with me. I just want to give Leo a hug and let him know I love him,. Please allow him this. All line of communication remain open. My soul concern is our son. I don't care about anything else . I would never do anything to hurt Leopold. You know this in your heart of hearts. Please call, please. Think of Leopold, please stop hurting him by with holding his fathers love.... Please let me tell him I love him. PLEASE se vou ple, Oh god please Nancy I will do anything you ask. Anything. You have me by the balls here. Your hurting me and him. Just please think of Leopold and let our son see his father. I don't hate you, and I love him. I'm sorry we could not work out but please don't hurt Leo be refusing to allow him his father. Honey I have seen you raise your hand to your own mother, you still cannot remember what happened for her to manage to bite you without her teeth? What makes me think if you get angry at Leo he will not suffer the same faith? I sent a letter to your mother out of concern around Thanks Giving and somehow, you manage to gain access to her mail and her facebook account to snoop around. What did you do with that letter, those words I wrote to her, you turned them around on your FundMe page and facebook, never thinking one instant that this might be true. I started keeping a serious tab on you after I was alerted that you tried to cross once and was turned back. What I found out scared the piss shit out of me, you have been deceitful, even tho you had weekly communications with Leo, you were seeking for more, much more. I did not cut all ties because, we did not work out, I cut all ties after I saw that you became obsessed after one missed skype conversation, checking which power lines went down because of the snowstorm and your insistent and obsessive demands to know where we reside. OMG, please get a clue and seek help for your anger and constant self medicating, this is all I ever asked for because I think about Leo. You on the other hand have burnt your bridges with me. I do not wish to hurt you but we have come to an impasse here, I stand here, to be accused of kidnapping, this is very serious shit there, it has nothing to do like me calling the cops when you raised your hand one too many times. I am even afraid to go out now Russell, always looking over my shoulder is NO WAY TO LIVE. You are here for custody hearing, fine... wish it was so, your motives are far more nefarious. I am devastated it came to this. March the third is not a custody hearing date, it is the date which I can stand to be accused of kidnapping Leo, which you know damned well not to be true. Leave us alone. You never hesitated to step and hurt the people that surrounded you to get what you want, I fail to see why this time would be any different. FFS, you asked me to send back Leo for a visit in January when you knew full well the charges you have laid on me. You cannot be trusted and I am scared of you. The 25 Rules of Disinformation 18. Emotionalize, Antagonize, and Goad Opponents. If you can’t do anything else, chide and taunt your opponents and draw them into emotional responses which will tend to make them look foolish and overly motivated, and generally render their material somewhat less coherent. Not only will you avoid discussing the issues in the first instance, but even if their emotional response addresses the issue, you can further avoid the issues by then focusing on how “sensitive they are to criticism”.
You have taken Leopold by deception. I did not need to be lied to so that you could spare my feelings. I needed to be honestly and duely informed. You told me To give up hope after you left... You threatened me multiple times that I would never see him again..... You have lied like crazy all over the place here. and still all is forgivable. The chance to start making the right choices is still here. just think about Leopold. Please. I am offering you public meeting places, inviting you to invite everyone you know, you know I love our son. You know this , and you know he misses me like the dickens. Please let us see each other, heck we can meet tomorrow at the police station of your choice, just please let him see his father. I love our son. I have only his best interests in mind always. You know I love him. We can start making the right choices but only in honesty with Leopold being at the forefront. Of our heart soul concern. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Russell, I'm ready to post the link of your criminal record Russell if you don't stop bugging my sister. SHE IS AFRAID OF YOU, can you understand that. Don't you remember that you went on prison twice because you could'nt control yourself ! You need a doctor Russell. You think you are a good father ? A good father don't beat his wife and his kids. The poor thing, can't even speak because of YOU. He saw his father making drugs, beating his mom and screaming after him. My sister told me thing that I can't talk in a public forum, you will hear it in court ! If you love your son, let the justice decided and go home with your own family. You know that you are not supposed to be here with your criminal record (drugs and many crime that you did since then). I'll give you a wise advice. Don't fuck around with the Canadian's justice, YOU may regret it. Nobody want to see you. UNDERSTAND. NOBODY ! The judge will decided if you are a danger for Léo or not ! but honestly my sister have many proof that you may hurt the kids again. So stop telling everybody, how good you are, and how a loving father you were, cause everything is in your head Russell, EVERYTHING. I told my sister to call the police and the GRC, cause she believe her life is in danger ! She can't sleep and lock herself in the house. Now that's enough. I will make everything in my power so she will be safe in her own town. On this side of the border you won't make the law like you did in Texas. Now have a life, and get a job, stop asking your mom to pay for everything. You are close to 35 ! No job, still living in mom's house, asking money so she can pay your credit card your food, phone bill and Intenet. Act like an adult for once. Just once. Leave us alone and stop making her life miserable. Au revoir
Please pay more attention to Leopold if he is still having trouble speaking. Only attention and interaction will overcome that hump that and speaking exercises and feeding him solid foods. I was told he was eating solid foods. I know he can say daddy and I know he can say on cal ( more in French). And don't refer to him as a thing. He is not a cat. He is not property, he is a living soul Chantal and he should be treated with the upmost love and respect.
______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
This is my last post to you, cause according to me, you don't deserved my precious time. Talking about respect, tell me that you were respectfull to your son and ex- wife. I'm listening ! Gee I can't hear you ! Oups ! it's a forum, of course I can't hear you !!! By beating, cheating, hurting, shouting, keeping them between 4 walls all day long ! Yeah ! Respect with a BIG R ! Go Russell, fall on your knees and pray, cause you have a lot to confess. Now... You are hurting my family and that I won't accept. NEVER. Your control over my sister and her son, is OVER. I know your mother is scared of you, and that's her problem. But for my part, I don't accept violence from anybody. My family is everything to me so I'll do anything to protect them. If I recall well, You were ready to send my sister and Léo in a Shelter home several month ago. Is that respecfull according to you ? At the time Léo, was not that important to you! You sure have a short memory Russell. Now you are talking like if Léo was a big part of you life ! Make me want to puke ! Your problem is that you lost control on everything. EVERYTHING, and THAT'S your big big big problem. Pack your thing dude ! it's time to go home.
firstly I would thank Christine for allowing this and then I would thank my friends of the forum for putting up with this and showing refrain. This is a very intimate freedom of speech here. Not the pretty kind either. Wisdom would suggest responding with much care and caution , if at all. Yet I don't want all these false allegations to go unchallenged. For that is a whole lot of malicious lies. And I want silver storms sister to treat her better. stop dominating her. and if silver has any fear at all in any shade of honesty I would alleviate that. you have nothing to fear from me, that is why I have been forth coming about my where abouts. Please do not live in fear. I want to be as public and see through as possible. If the worst case scenario happens I want this bread crumb trail to be here for Leopold to find me when he comes of age. In the best case scenario ... I don't know what that is anymore. Leopold is just a child and he deserves better. He deserves all of our love and none of our issues. I would never and have never and will never hurt him. He is our little angel. My little guy. My heart. I taught him to walk, I got him to start talking, I practiced physical education with him so that he can balance and hop on one foot. He is the light of my life. Please treat him with love and respect. And if you can find it in your heart to allow it , he would love to visit with his father. The bond we share is eternal and unbreakable . If a half hour visit makes him happy and improves his behavior then why not? I'm willing to agree to any thing to most anything for his sake. But that does not mean am accepting of the falsehoods. It means I would protect him from all harm and hurt if I could. Id do anything for him. He has my heart and soul. so I would ask that you think on him and contemplate all this. Do what is best for him by making right choices by him . Consider his needs for he needs his daddy and I am here for him, in the name of love. I love you son. I would share a prayer with you my little guy. Our father , who are't in heaven, hallowed be thy name , thy kingdom come , thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven, give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us , and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil, for thine is the kingdom the power and the glory forever and ever, amen. That is the Lord's Prayer son. I give it to you and pray you receive it, in love. ______________________________________ Suspect all media / resist bad propaganda/Learn NLP everyday everyway ;) If you don't control your mind someone else will.
Leopold is just a child and he deserves better. It's: Our father which art in heaven.... Yes he does.... Seriously, getting a job and financially supporting Leo would go a LONG WAY to alleviate much of the drama and butt hurt going on between you and your soon to be ex-wife. Supporting your child is being responsible and showing respect and love. This is how YOU can treat Leo with love and respect right now. Airing your dirty laundry for all the world to see is not treating Leo with love and respect. It is making your situation worsen by the minute. Consider the implication of your actions....seriously, charging the mother of child with kidnapping? Is that going to improve your situation? Is that showing love and respect for Leo. Showing his mother respect is loving Leo. Period. " If you cannot govern yourself, you will be governed by assholes. " Randge, Poet de Forum, 1/11/11 "Life's tough, and even tougher if you're stupid." --John Wayne
Knowing silver for more than 20 years. and see the FACTS in hand and documents, signed by you. the only one that is not honest with us and yourself? is you BODY
The Spider and the Fly “Will you walk into my parlour?” said the Spider to the Fly, 'Tis the prettiest little parlour that ever you did spy; The way into my parlour is up a winding stair, And I've a many curious things to shew when you are there.” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “to ask me is in vain, For who goes up your winding stair -can ne'er come down again.” “I'm sure you must be weary, dear, with soaring up so high; Will you rest upon my little bed?” said the Spider to the Fly. “There are pretty curtains drawn around; the sheets are fine and thin, And if you like to rest awhile, I'll snugly tuck you in!” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “for I've often heard it said, They never, never wake again, who sleep upon your bed!” Said the cunning Spider to the Fly, “Dear friend what can I do, To prove the warm affection I 've always felt for you? I have within my pantry, good store of all that's nice; I'm sure you're very welcome — will you please to take a slice?” “Oh no, no,” said the little Fly, “kind Sir, that cannot be, I've heard what's in your pantry, and I do not wish to see!” “Sweet creature!” said the Spider, “you're witty and you're wise, How handsome are your gauzy wings, how brilliant are your eyes! I've a little looking-glass upon my parlour shelf, If you'll step in one moment, dear, you shall behold yourself.” “I thank you, gentle sir,” she said, “for what you 're pleased to say, And bidding you good morning now, I'll call another day.” The Spider turned him round about, and went into his den, For well he knew the silly Fly would soon come back again: So he wove a subtle web, in a little corner sly, And set his table ready, to dine upon the Fly. Then he came out to his door again, and merrily did sing, “Come hither, hither, pretty Fly, with the pearl and silver wing; Your robes are green and purple — there's a crest upon your head; Your eyes are like the diamond bright, but mine are dull as lead!” Alas, alas! how very soon this silly little Fly, Hearing his wily, flattering words, came slowly flitting by; With buzzing wings she hung aloft, then near and nearer drew, Thinking only of her brilliant eyes, and green and purple hue — Thinking only of her crested head — poor foolish thing! At last, Up jumped the cunning Spider, and fiercely held her fast. He dragged her up his winding stair, into his dismal den, Within his little parlour — but she ne'er came out again! And now dear little children, who may this story read, To idle, silly flattering words, I pray you ne'er give heed: Unto an evil counsellor, close heart and ear and eye, And take a lesson from this tale, of the Spider and the Fly. ~By Mary Howitt, 1829 “Anti-semitism is a disease–you catch it from Jews”–Edgar J. Steele “The jew cries out in pain, as he strikes you.”–Polish proverb “I would like to express my heartfelt apologies for the unfortunate and tasteless quotes I published in my tag lines. I am very sorry and ashamed. I never wanted to offend anyone, or to encroach human rights."- Hmmmmm
Sorry guys for this, I have kept my peace and only browsed once in a while and mostly stayed away in consideration to the other party, considering this place as his place and forum. It was not my wish to air this in public, which is why I stayed silent and kept my peace about his thread/blog. Knowing he was here in Montreal just jolted the shit out of me. I apologize to have taken you all as witnesses about my fear at his presence here in my home city. Today I have received his kidnapping motion which dates from early October and will remain silent on the whole thing as it will lead to no good to air more dirty laundry in public. I am just tired and hope this will resolve soon and he will go home after this whole insanity is sorted out. My deepest apologies to everyone. Miss you guys SilverStorm The 25 Rules of Disinformation 18. Emotionalize, Antagonize, and Goad Opponents. If you can’t do anything else, chide and taunt your opponents and draw them into emotional responses which will tend to make them look foolish and overly motivated, and generally render their material somewhat less coherent. Not only will you avoid discussing the issues in the first instance, but even if their emotional response addresses the issue, you can further avoid the issues by then focusing on how “sensitive they are to criticism”.
For your son's sake and his future: Pic at zengardner.com article: Kicking Stones – Clearing the Pathway for Others ------- "They're on our left, they're on our right, they're in front of us, they're behind us...they can't get away this time." -- Col. Puller, USMC
Your lawyer should be making whatever threats need to be made.
"If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers" ~ Thomas Pynchon Gravity's Rainbow
#28. To: titorite (#0)
Dollar DVD Project Liberty needs patriot activists
to help wake the town and tell the people. Do your
friends and family know what you know?
#29. To: wudidiz, strepsiptera (#27)
I don't remember one instance where making threats turned out to be a good approach when dealing with this sort of matter :)
#30. To: titorite (#29)
#31. To: titorite (#29)
has already accused me of threatening her for daring to want to speak with my son and wanting to spend time with him.
#32. To: titorite, all (#26)
"If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers" ~ Thomas Pynchon Gravity's Rainbow
#33. To: All (#0)
#34. To: titorite (#33)
"If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers" ~ Thomas Pynchon Gravity's Rainbow
#35. To: wudidiz, titorite (#34)
Give it some time. It probably doesn't seem like so much time to her. It's not really a lot of time. 72 hours? I could do that standing on my head. ;)
#36. To: titorite (#34)
(Edited)
1. Get a lawyer
"If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers" ~ Thomas Pynchon Gravity's Rainbow
#37. To: All (#0)
#38. To: SilverStorm (#37)
#39. To: GreyLmist (#38)
#40. To: SilverStorm (#37)
(Edited)
#41. To: All (#40)
(Edited)
#42. To: GreyLmist (#38)
(Edited)
#43. To: All (#42)
(Edited)
#44. To: All (#43)
(Edited)
#45. To: All (#44)
#46. To: All (#45)
(Edited)
#47. To: All (#46)
(Edited)
#48. To: All (#47)
#49. To: All (#48)
#50. To: All (#49)
I love you Leo.
#51. To: All (#50)
#52. To: titorite (#51)
On 2014-02-19 21:02:09, titorite wrote:
#53. To: SilverStorm (#52)
(Edited)
#54. To: SilverStorm (#52)
#55. To: SilverStorm (#52)
#56. To: titorite (#53)
On 2014-02-20 17:17:28, titorite wrote:
#57. To: SilverStorm (#56)
(Edited)
#58. To: titorite (#57)
A Message for Russell Shipp (TITORITE)
#59. To: Eska (#58)
#60. To: titorite (#59)
#61. To: All (#60)
#62. To: titorite (#61)
Our father , who are't in heaven,
#63. To: titorite (#61)
Yet I don't want all these false allegations to go unchallenged. For that is a whole lot of malicious lies.
#64. To: abraxas (#62)
#65. To: abraxas (#62)
#66. To: SilverStorm, titorite (#65)
Top • Page Up • Full Thread • Page Down • Bottom/Latest
