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Resistance See other Resistance Articles Title: Bring Lexi Home On Monday, agents from L.A. County’s Department of Children and Family Services removed 6-year-old Lexi from her family of four years because she’s 1.6% American Indian. Foster-care parents the Pages were told of the decision on Friday night and before they could contest it, authorities ripped the child from her home and gave her to a family in Utah. The video footage of this is hard to watch. Her siblings Maddie, Zoey, and Caleb are hysterical and so is Lexi. I can’t look at it without bawling like an infant. I was reminded of a similar tearjerker in Ann Coulter’s book Guilty where she describes adopted 3-year-old Danny crying, “Please, Mommy, I’ll be good. Don’t make me leave. I’ll be good,” to his adoptive mother as the state drags the boy back to his biological mother (a single mom who had changed her mind). Lexi had similar pleas. I find the crying siblings in the Page video the hardest to take because they personify what a loving family she is coming from. I have three kids and even if my daughter broke her leg, I’m not sure it would register with my sons. Siblings are cruel and it takes a lot before they’re so sympathetic they’re bawling their eyes out. Being a parent also means I realize how different a 2-year-old is from a 6-year-old. Lexi was just a silly little person when she was taken in by the Pages, but a 6-year-old has a distinct personality with clear likes and dislikes. They’re basically a tiny woman. I spoke to the Page’s attorney Lori Alvino McGill, who told me the Pages had already won two appeals against the Utah family. It’s all very complicated with the appeals court ruling for the Pages each time and the family court ruling against them. When Lexi arrived at the Pages’ she had a black eye. She came from a Hispanic single mother with no Indian heritage and her father has been in and out of jail for a long time. The various foster-care families she had just come from weren’t much better (it’s there she got the injury). When she arrived at the Pages everything went smoothly, and when the “biological” family in Utah tried to take her, the court told them to get lost, twice. The Pages assumed they were in the clear and were living happily ever after when their world collapsed. “We’ve taken a steamroller to pave the road with good intentions and run over entire families in the process.” As far as the court is concerned Lexi is part Choctaw, and the Indian Child Welfare Act says we need to put Indian kids with Indian families. The family in Utah isn’t remotely Indian, but they’re raising Lexi’s half sister, so technically they’re more Indian than the Pages. The law was created in 1978 to make up for the horrible atrocities we committed several generations ago. We all agree that the fracturing of Indian families was a very dark period in our history, but this law is a Band-Aid on a faded scar. It looks good on paper, but it’s a little too little a little too late, as the culture they are striving to preserve is pretty much gone. Sure, there are still powwows and an Indian funeral often means doing peyote and sitting in a teepee for several days, but these events are sporadic. Today even the most Indian homes are watching TV in the living room under military photos of male relatives in uniform. The only thing notably different from their situation is the food, which often includes high-sugar and high-fat menu items such as whipped cream and fry bread. It’s a delicious indulgence but nothing worth tearing a family apart over. Not only is the law itself ridiculous, the reasons for invoking it in this case are completely insane. She’s 1.6% Choctaw. This means, as her uncle Matt pointed out, “1 of Lexi’s 64 Great Great Great Great Grandparents was Choctaw. 63 of them were not.” Remember how outraged we were when Elizabeth Warren used her alleged 1/32nd Native American status to take advantage of affirmative-action laws? She’s about twice as Indian as Lexi. Warren was pretending to be Cherokee and they’re very liberal with tribe membership because they don’t have any money. My wife’s tribe, the Ho-Chunks, owns a casino and has rights to a land claim settlement, so being a member means regular paychecks. With stakes this high, they cut off membership at anything under 25% and I’ve come to believe that’s a reasonable number. Few would agree 1.6% is also relevant. The Choctaw tribe is on the defense, issuing a statement that insisted, “The purpose of foster care is to provide temporary care for children while families get services and support to reunite with their children.” Okay, but when a child has been with a loving family from 2 to 6 years of age, all bets are off. The state claims that the foster family knew this was coming, but all they knew was that someone else wanted to take their daughter away. The Pages allowed for visits and Skype calls from the other family, but they were required to do so by law. Twice the court decided the pros of moving Lexi to someone fractionally more Indian don’t even come close to the cons of tearing a little girl from her family. Even if she was returned tomorrow, we just taught her that you can be stolen from your family at any time. This is a wound that will likely never heal. It’s always been every adoptive parent’s worst nightmare, but now it’s every adopted kid’s. I spoke to a mother of five who has children at Lexi’s school and she said the entire town is spooked by what happened, especially the kids. Children don’t understand the nuance of law and now include government abduction among their various fears. Critics of the Page family say they should have warned Lexi this could happen. They say the patriarch, Rusty Page, should have given the baby up at the first request, which was about a year after they took her in. The Pages have also been criticized for starting a GoFundMe page that is up to $36,300 at the time of writing this. I’ve looked into all of these allegations and they are all baseless. 36K is a drop in the bucket when compared with their legal fees (Lori is pro bono but their trial lawyer is not). Mr. Page didn’t tell Lexi about all this because he assumed the courts were correct when they said he has the right to keep the child. I have come to the conclusion that there is a backlash against the Pages because people simply can’t handle the truth. It’s overwhelming. For the record, I’d be fine with Lexi staying with the Pages no matter how underhanded their court dealings were. Outside of abuse, Lexi is clearly better off with the family she’s been with for the past four years. If Rusty did something wrong, throw him in jail. Right now it’s Lexi who is suffering the most and all she’s done is recover from abuse and learn to love a family. It’s frustrating reading about this when there is so little we can do. The Pages aren’t up against a glitch in the court proceedings or some kind of corrupt attorney. They’re up against the law itself. The culture is also way more sympathetic to the Indians we abused than the whites who benefited. The law looks reasonable at first glance, but we’ve taken a steamroller to pave the road with good intentions and run over entire families in the process. It’s not going to be easy getting Lexi back. We can sign the petition and donate to their cause. If you’re in Los Angeles, I’d recommend going to Ron Ridge Drive where people are holding group prayers to show support. When I asked their attorney what we can do, she suggested writing our congressmen and senators to voice our opinion about this case and others like it. That’s the scary part about all this. Lexi is not that unusual. She’s just the first one to make headlines. Please share this article by using the link below. When you cut and paste an article, Taki's Magazine misses out on traffic, and our writers don't get paid for their work. Email editors@takimag.com to buy additional rights. http://takimag.com/article/bring_lexi_home_gavin_mcinnes/print#ixzz442uyPFBz Post Comment Private Reply Ignore Thread Top • Page Up • Full Thread • Page Down • Bottom/Latest Begin Trace Mode for Comment # 1.
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