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World News See other World News Articles Title: BAN 'best friends'! Schools are told to stop kids using the term which makes classmates feel left out A UK trend to ban students from saying 'best friends' has spread to the US The point is to teach children to be inclusive, rather than exclusive It's gained support from educators, psychologists and others working with kids The movement is thought to have began in Prince George's South London school Schools around the world are banning the term 'best friends,' stopping children from naming their favorite buddy in a bid to ensure classmates don't feel left out. A New York psychologist says the trend that started in London is now spreading across the US. 'The idea of banning the phrase "best friends" is a very intriguing social experiment,' clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Greenberg tells CBS in New York. 'Let’s face it, you can’t ban somebody from having a close relationship, and you can’t really ban somebody from having a best friend but what the schools are trying to do is foster the idea of kids having more than a single friend,' Greenberg says. It's apparently become a trend in schools in the US and the UK to ban students from using the term, 'best friends,' according to clinical psychologist Dr. Barbara Greenberg [stock photo] The movement, which is believed to have started in Prince George's school in South London, isn't intended to discourage intimate friendships, but rather encourage more inclusivity, Greenberg says. The idea is to increase the number of interactions a student may have with different members of his or her peer group. It's now garnered support from educators in America, Greenberg says, who is licensed to practice psychology in both Connecticut and New York, and personally believes the rationale behind the notion is strong. 'I see kids come in all week long who are feeling dreadful because they are excluded and because they are either nobody’s best friend or their best friend has moved on,' Greenberg says. Jay Jacobs, who operates Timber Lake Camp in New York, stresses the downside of not fostering multiple relationships at a young age, for exactly that reason. 'I think that there are pitfalls in just having one friend,' Jacobs says. 'Remember as you grow up, interests change, children go in different directions.' Jay Jacobs (pictured), who operates Timber Lake Camp in New York, stresses the downside of not fostering multiple relationships at a young age The movement, which is believed to have started in Prince George's school in South London, isn't intended to discourage intimate friendships, but rather encourage more inclusivity, Dr. Barbara Greenberg (pictured) says Dr. Barbara Greenberg (right) and Jay Jacobs (left), who operates Timber Lake Camp in New York agree that children should be encouraged to make several friends Greenberg: 'I see kids come in all week long who are feeling dreadful because they are excluded and because they are either nobody’s best friend or their best friend has moved on' Jacobs adds that counselors at Timber Lake, which alternates in location between Glen Cove in Winter and Shandake in Summer, have made it a point to promote a more inclusive environment for years. His philosophy is that children will be better set up for success later in life if they get used to having a wider friend group at a young age. 'You can’t be on the soccer field and just be dealing with one child, they’re going to be interacting with a team,' Jacobs says. 'It’s about promoting kindness, looking to children to be kind to one another and to be aware of what it looks like when you’re not.' Post Comment Private Reply Ignore Thread
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