You are about to read the actual confession of a married person who has committed adultery by using the Internet to cheat on their spouse. After you read this confession we will inform you on how you can see if your lover has been using the Internet to cheat on you.
Carolyn M., 33 of Lancaster, CA, is a married stay-at-home mom, who uses the Internet to have online cybersex affairs.
Interviewer: Why did you start using the Internet to cheat on your husband?
Carolyn: Because the Internet makes it so easy to cheat. I really love my husband, but the temptation of the Internet is so overbearing that I just can't help myself. I'm addicted.
Interviewer: Can you define "cybersex" for us?
Carolyn: Using a computer, a keyboard, and your imagination to have sex with someone that you can't see, touch, or smell. It can be very exciting and fulfilling, or it can be boring and annoying. But I love it.
Interviewer: Do you feel that engaging in cybersex is the same as cheating on your husband?
Carolyn: Yes, I do believe that I'm committing adultery every time I connect to the Net and have cybersex with someone. I don't ever feel guilty however because it's not really happening, it's fake, but yet I still feel like I'm really having sex with someone new and fun. It's very intimate and I believe that I'll continue having cybersex for as long as I can.
Interviewer: How do you meet your cybersex partners?
Carolyn: Usually message boards, or I just enter chat rooms that I find through various search engines. Honestly, it's the easiest thing to do. Sometimes I find myself having cybersex with someone within 3 minutes of connecting to the Net. It's crazy.
Interviewer: How often and when do you have cybersex?
Carolyn: Honestly, whenever my husband isn't paying attention. Sometimes I actually participate in cybersex when my husband is in the same room that I'm in. He'll be watching something on TV and I'll be in cyberspace having a threesome with two guys that I just met. It's funny how he has no clue as to what I'm doing. But I mainly do it when my husband is at work, or when he goes to bed. I tend to stay up really late at night because that's when the chat rooms get very hot if you know what I mean.
Interviewer: What excuses do you give your husband so you can go online and have cybersex?
Carolyn: I just tell him that I'm bored and going online to look at clothes, or to check the weather, or to see what movies are coming out soon. Or I just tell him that I'm emailing some friends, or my mom. He has no clue. It's kind of sad how clueless someone can be.
Interviewer: Do you ever plan on meeting your cybersex "partners" in the real world?
Carolyn: Yes, I plan on this. Many of the men that I meet want to meet me in person, and want to of course make love to me for real. I think that one day I may be tempted to actually go out there and meet one of these guys who I trust. Cybersex can be fun, but taking it to the next level is inevitable. I really believe that 90% or more of the people who participate in cybersex affairs will eventually have sex with someone they met online in the real world.
Interviewer: Do any of your married girlfriends use the Internet to cheat on their husbands?
Carolyn: That's funny that you ask because about one-third of all my friends who are married have tried cybersex at least one time.
Interviewer: Did you know that there is a program out there that your husband could secretly download onto your PC that would allow him to read all of your emails, instant messages, chat room conversions and the websites you visit? Basically, he would know everything that you do online.
Carolyn: No, I didn't know that.
Interviewer: Does that scare you?
Carolyn: Yes, I don't want my husband to ever find out what I'm doing online.
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