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Title: Are Dads Dispensible?
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URL Source: http://thepaleoconservativeprimer.b ... 007/07/is-dad-dispensible.html
Published: Jul 29, 2007
Author: Jayne Gardener
Post Date: 2007-07-29 17:44:16 by YertleTurtle
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Views: 479
Comments: 20
When did fathers become objects of ridicule in our culture? I can't pinpoint the exact time myself but I can honestly say it was in my lifetime. I grew up during a time in which most fathers were breadwinners and most mothers stayed home to take care of the household chores and raise the children. Husbands took pride in providing a good home and the necessities of life for their families while their wives took pride in keeping the home running smoothly and looking out for the needs of their husbands and children. None of my friends were the product of single parent families unless one of the parents had died. Divorce was something rare in those days, at least in the small village where I was raised, and it was most certainly something the majority frowned upon. To be a widow was lamentable. To be a divorcee was scandalous. Television sitcoms back then often revolved around traditional families which reflected true life. Father Knows Best, The Donna Reed Show, Leave It To Beaver and Ozzie and Harriet all had the same family structure. The father was wise, loving and kind, but firm. He was the definite head of the family who was deferred to by his wife as well as being respected and perhaps a little feared by his children. They came to him for his wisdom and advice and admired him for being a strong, positive role model. So what happened? Today we have sitcoms where fathers are portrayed as drooling idiots who are disrespected by their offspring and who are constantly being shown the error of their ways by their more intelligent, more competent better halves. We see men who behave like mentally challenged children who are constantly earning the scorn and ire of their spouses. They are demeaned and ridiculed by other family members and the female heads of the household are charged with the responsibility of fixing the chaos and disorder they create. Examples of this abound but I think the earliest example I can point to is Married With Children. Many shows would follow their formula. Even commercials have gotten into the act, many of them depicting men as foolish, juvenile and irresponsible while their wives are depicted as mature, emotionally stable, long suffering and endlessly more competent. Where functional families used to be the norm now we are given example after ad nauseum example of family dysfunction. No wonder so many people on the left scorn traditional families and traditional values. If I thought those television sitcoms were an accurate reflection of most American families I'd have a pretty skewed view as well. In a discussion about this very issue the other day I was quite shocked when a female acquaintance said that she didn't know what the big deal was about single women raising children alone. "Fathers are not really necessary," she said seriously to my absolute incredulity. That statement alone is a testament to the successful brainwashing in our society by a Jewish run media who has convinced a generation of idiots and dullards that fathers are dispensible. It frustrates and angers me that we have become a society where men are not valued and respected in their role as parent. Fathers are very necessary if children are going to be raised well to become emotionally healthy, stable, well-adjusted and productive citizens. I'm not saying that single mothers can't do a good job of raising their kids because many can and do, but it's not the ideal. Girls need a father because it's the first man she will have a close relationship with and her relationship with him will colour all future relationships with men. Women often choose to marry men very like their fathers because their fathers had all the qualities they wanted in a man. My own husband is very like my father in a lot of ways. The reason a boy needs a father should be self evident to all but the 75 IQers among us. He needs to learn how to become a man and it takes a man to teach him. When my son was born I knew how to take care of a baby and I knew that children needed a lot of love and caring attention but I hadn't even the vaguest notion of how to teach my son to be a man. That's what fathers are for. If we want to see a glaring example of what happens when fathers are absent, just take a look at the poor black neighbourhoods in American cities where there is a near 70% illegitimacy rate and black fathers are rarely found living with their children in this largely matriarchal society. Could the absence of a strong father figure have anything to do with the 50% teen pregnancy rate and the out of control crime rate of angry black youths? I dare say yes. So why are fathers so denigrated in our society? I think the answer is again axiomatic. The largely Jewish controlled media hates the traditional family and traditional Christian family values. They are anathema to their agenda and they seek to undermine it and destroy it by any means possible. Don't let them fool you. Fathers are valuable. They are very valuable and play an indispensible role in the raising of their children. We should thank our lucky stars that so many of them are decent, responsible human beings who take their role as fathers and the raising of future productive citizens seriously. If people refused to watch the mindless drivel that passes for entertainment on television these days perhaps we could have some sort of return to sanity. I'm sick of seeing these dysfunctional families with their mouthy, disrespectful offspring in sitcom after stupid sitcom. It is a fact that Jews are heavily involved in conceiving, writing, directing and producing these programs and they do it deliberately to advance their agenda. Being a good father is something that every male parent should aspire to and we should celebrate those who succeed at it, not denigrate and mock them. Fathers are undoubtedly and unarguably important in the lives of their children. To say otherwise is to adopt the mantra of the Jewish supremacists who see the nuclear family and traditional Christian values as the enemy to be mocked, ridiculed and eventually destroyed. One can only imagine the upbringing of some of these Hollywood types if this is their view of what a family is and how it functions. Of course to them, a family is any two people living under the same roof whether or not they're related to each other. Rational people know better.
Poster Comment: When it comes to TV, I can remember when it changed: "All in the Family," one of the most lying programs ever.
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#1. To: YertleTurtle (#0)
I can't see how blaming this on the Jews accomplishes anything, unless they invented The Pill and no-fault divorce. Maybe they did. I know Gov. Ronald Reagan signed into law the first no-fault divorce statute. I also don't think men are to blame for this (I may be biased) because in the vast majority of cases (80 percent, IIRC) it is the women who are choosing to divorce and/or separate and/or never marry at all in connection with also reproducing. It's their body, after all, as the abortion rights spiel goes.
The benefits of education and of useful knowledge, generally diffused through a community, are essential to the preservation of a free government. - Sam Houston
Nice article - thanks. This is why I no longer view the electric jew. It's garbage to anyone who thinks, and propaganda to those who cannot.
Not unless you are going to get rid of the male gender all together. It takes a man to teach a boy how to be a man. It also takes a man to teach a daughter what she should look for in a man. Sadly women have spent the last few decades trying to remake the male model into what the feminine thinks a male should be. It isn't working. Too many men today try and fill that role. Please don't. Being the female concept of a man is not being a man. If you want to be a man, look to other men for the answer. Please, I beg you, for the sake of us few women who love and appreciate males.
I don't agree 100% with everything I post, but overall the article is correct.
“When I am the weaker, I ask you for my freedom, because that is your principle; but when I am the stronger, I take away your freedom, because that is my principle.”-Louis Veuillot
The mommy test I was out walking with my 4 year old daughter. She picked something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. I took the item away from her and I asked her not to do that. "Why?" my daughter asked. "Because it's been on the ground, you don't know where it's been, it's dirty and probably has germs" I replied. At this point, my daughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, "Mommy, how do you know all this stuff? You are so smart." I was thinking quickly. "All moms know this stuff. It's on the Mommy Test. You have to know it, or they don't let you be a Mommy." We walked along in silence for 2 or 3 minutes, but she was evidently pondering this new information. "OH...I get it!" she beamed, "So if you don't pass the test you have to be the daddy." "Exactly" I replied back with a big smile on my face.
I have something you don't have, and if you didn't get it on a regular basis you would cry yourself to sleep every night for the rest of your life. ;-)
“When I am the weaker, I ask you for my freedom, because that is your principle; but when I am the stronger, I take away your freedom, because that is my principle.”-Louis Veuillot
Hmmmmm.....sounds like jews talked wimmen out of their bras when the 'whities' couldn't! LOLOLOLOL! Blame someone else. Never look to within ourselves as being the culprits. There is always the option to 'just say no'....whether it is to buy a second car, a boat, an over priced or over sized house. And if it is gubmint doing all that taxation shit, you get others in your predicament to head to the capital with tar and feathers. Nah...much easier to blame the fems, or blame the jews, or blame the media, or the guys across the pond. The writer is correct that fathers are needed--and not just biologically. Hell, snakes can reproduce! We need men, real men, to be the role models for the young impressionable minds of our sons, and like the writer notes, a model which our daughters can delight in when looking for a spouse.
I envy that.
Amen. We don't need a modern-day feminist concept of 'man'......we need real men being real husbands and real fathers day in and day out, 24/7. Boys need to see what it is to treat a woman like a beloved treasure.....likewise for girls. They also need to learn 'male' thingies just as girls need to learn 'girl' thingies....from the appropriate role models. And then the interaction and interplay of the sexes in the group, or familial, setting. Instead, today we have kids seeing Mothers having their kids snuffed out because they are 'inconvenient'--that really lets kids know how important children are to society. We have only to look at ourselves when a kid blasts someone away.........if a Mother shows life means nothing, why would we expect a kid to think any differently. And I use a generic 'we' or 'Mother' in all this...
Are Dads Dispensible? Not unless you are going to get rid of the male gender all together. It takes a man to teach a boy how to be a man. It also takes a man to teach a daughter what she should look for in a man. Sadly women have spent the last few decades trying to remake the male model into what the feminine thinks a male should be. It isn't working. Too many men today try and fill that role. Please don't. Being the female concept of a man is not being a man. If you want to be a man, look to other men for the answer. Please, I beg you, for the sake of us few women who love and appreciate males. farmfriend Good points. They iterate every lesson of Oedipus Rex.
I have something you don't have, I envy that. farmfriend Admit you copied that from Freud. Or did Freud copy that from a patient he was drugging then screwing? LOL good post.
Just wanted to pass along an interesting bit of information. I spend a lot of time in a virtual world called "Second Life", it's where I make my living now. In this world, you will find MANY women who choose to be either submissive or flat out slaves to their men. You would not believe how many. It is, IMHO, a sign of an upcoming massive backlash against "feminism" in all of its forms. Women screamed and bitched and pushed and nagged and did everything they could to emasculate men, and then when they finally succeeded in emotionally and mentally castrating a whole generation of men, they suddenly realized they had been sold a bill of goods. Men are a lot more fun to have around when you don't cut their balls off. As of now, I'm a "dominant", and have no problem finding women in SL who want to have me be dominant towards them. I've already had one relationship in Second Life turn into a real life relationship, and although that didn't work out in the long term I already have a couple of other possibilities that I'm hopeful about. Women are finally wising up, and realizing they're a LOT happier when they don't try to be men. Mark my words, over the next few years you'll see a whole new stereotype emerge, that of the bitter, shriveled old maid who was a "feminist", and is now reaping a boxcar of sorrow as a result of their foolishness.
#2. To: YertleTurtle (#0)
The reason a boy needs a father should be self evident to all but the 75 IQers among us. He needs to learn how to become a man and it takes a man to teach him. When my son was born I knew how to take care of a baby and I knew that children needed a lot of love and caring attention but I hadn't even the vaguest notion of how to teach my son to be a man. That's what fathers are for.
#3. To: YertleTurtle, critter, JCHarris, Original_Intent, wudidiz, lodwick, 4um men (#0)
Are Dads Dispensible?
#4. To: Sam Houston (#1)
I can't see how blaming this on the Jews accomplishes anything, unless they invented The Pill and no-fault divorce.
#5. To: women of 4um (#4)
Having already stated my opinion I couldn't resist adding a joke.
#6. To: farmfriend (#5)
"OH...I get it!" she beamed, "So if you don't pass the test you have to be the daddy."
#7. To: YertleTurtle (#0)
#8. To: YertleTurtle (#6)
I have something you don't have,
#9. To: farmfriend (#3)
#10. To: farmfriend, YertleTurtle, critter, JCHarris, Original_Intent, wudidiz, lodwick, 4um men 0 (#3)
#3. To: YertleTurtle, critter, JCHarris, Original_Intent, wudidiz, lodwick, 4um men (#0)
#11. To: farmfriend, Yertle Turtle (#8)
YertleTurtle (#6)
#12. To: rowdee (#9)
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#13. To: Sam Houston (#1)
"I can't see how blaming this on the Jews accomplishes anything, unless they invented The Pill and no-fault divorce. Maybe they did. I know Gov. Ronald Reagan signed into law the first no-fault divorce statute." Hi Sam. Hope all is well. Just a little background. No-fault Divorce: Allen v. Allen - Wrottesley and Evershed were both Jewish Riane Eisler, a Jewish Marxist Gaia feminist attorney, Eisler drafted legislation advancing women’s rights for the California legislature. In 1970 she was the author of an amicus curiae brief to the U.S. Supreme Court that preceded the success of Reed v. Reed, for the first time holding that gender-based discrimination violates the equal protection clause of the 14th Amendment. And, whose book Dissolution: No-fault Divorce, Marriage, and the Future of Women (McGraw-Hill, 1977) was the first to explore in depth the implication for women of no-fault divorce and to predict the “feminization of poverty” that became a national issue in the 1980s and continues unabated into our time. Also, see "Gaia is the Greek name for Earth and this hypothesis belief is that the Great Mother gives us all life and life's necessities." THE PILL
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#14. To: Elliott Jackalope (#12)
Thank you for the information EJ.......I've long thought feminisnazis would do more harm than they could ever possibly do good. I'll relate a story to you that pointed me in that direction. Back in the days when I worked for a very large oil company, I had progressed through the ranks and had made the first female Marketing Assistant. Who's Who of Women was all excited, and arranged through our Personnel Dept. to come interview me out at the office I worked in. I was up to my arse in alligators, so to speak, in that the fella that I replaced had gone on a 2 week vacation; so enjoyed himself that he decided not to come back. Didn't bother to let anyone know, though. The company even had law enforcement involved with trying to find out of something bad had happened to the man. So, there was roughly 2 months worth of work backed up in the tunnel. Anyways, these wimmen were determined to interview me, and I caved in. They came out, and after introductions, the Personnel guy took a powder. One of the first things out of their mouths was suggestive that the company had determined to promote women and is why I got the job. I set their little asses straight right away on that score because I worked my butt off in every part of the regional office I had worked in, whether construction, maintenance, real estate, or assisting the regional office supervisor with budgetary matters. I was never a clock watcher, etc. Anyways, they got rather huffy when I told them I wasn't interested in all these so-called 'wimmen' issues, and besides I couldn't burn my bra; I needed all the help I could get! Needless to say, it didn't sit very well with these two women, and they left rather quickly after that. And on another point, while I was not a Bible believer when I was married, my husband and I always talked most matters over, and at the end of I day, I most always deferred to his judgment. Only, when I had positively taken the steps of evaluating my position, with research, backup specifics re costs or whatever, would I attempt to really influence the issue. Those times were very few and far between. And it always turned out that he appreciated that I had gone the extra mile to attempt to impose the final determination....and, fortunately for me and my peace of mind, such matters always turned out well. I never considered myself subservient to him. And he never did me, either. Everytime I received a promotion, he was the one that was bragging it up to our friends. His friend, John, questioned him about feeling threatened if I wound up making more money than him, but he always said if I did it would be great because it meant we could retire that much sooner. :) God love that man--I sure did.
#15. To: Uncle Bill (#13)
Well, I'll be damned. Okay, you all have my permission to blame the Jews.
The benefits of education and of useful knowledge, generally diffused through a community, are essential to the preservation of a free government. - Sam Houston
#16. To: YertleTurtle (#0)
Not the way to learn how to be functional. Real men want to take care of women and children.
Where functional families used to be the norm now we are given example after ad nauseum example of family dysfunction.
Ron Paul for President
#17. To: robin (#16)
And real women appreciate that!
Real men want to take care of women and children.
#18. To: BlueEyedGirl (#17)
That's right!
Ron Paul for President
#19. To: farmfriend (#3)
Most women today don't want a man. They want a woman with a penis.
Sadly women have spent the last few decades trying to remake the male model into what the feminine thinks a male should be.
Enemies of the Republic
#20. To: Critter (#19)
Isn't that the truth.
They want a woman with a penis.
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