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Title: Attention 4um Members
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Published: May 4, 2008
Author: me
Post Date: 2008-05-04 22:40:24 by christine
Keywords: None
Views: 31710
Comments: 655

I have to be honest, I'm completely distressed at what's happened to this forum. The fighting and the distrust between those for and those against Obama has gotten to the point where, in my opinion, it's destroying the forum. What's the point of having an open free speech venue when everyone is bozo'ing everyone else?

When I read my mission statement and what Freedom4um was created to be, I don't even recognize the place anymore. There will be changes made in the near future as I decide what is best for the continued growth of this forum.

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#55. To: Pinguinite (#10)

"Disagreement is one of the main points of a forum. Sure it may mean some people go, but new people come. That's normal. That's healthy."

Problem is, if we all ignore variant viewpoints, you get a bunch of folks posting past each other and threads lose what used to make threads interesting...rational debate!!

"I agree that I would not have supposed that the R&D election cycle would bring this kind of discord here. But then again, maybe it's doing a service by bringing more that we really are about. If so, that may be uncomfortable, but that doesn't mean it's wrong or unhealthy forum-wise. It's not the point of 4um to mold any of us into something we aren't. Certainly that's not going to happen except for those individuals that allow themselves to change. Please take heart that that's how it should be."

I think I'm with you, Neil, about the folks not changing unless they are prepared to change. I realize many of my fellow 4umers are part of the ObamaNation and there's nothing I can say to change that. More power to them!!

But if they are free to post, immune to comments and questions from those who may disagree with their viewpoints, what find of 4um is THAT?! It becomes a propoganda center. Heck, I could become a Paulbot and become quite annoying rather quickly...LOL!! If I wanna spew Ron Paul propoganda, I oughtta at least be willing to defend his views on-Forum...MUD

Devolve Power Outta the Federal Leviathan and Back to the States,
Localities, and Individuals as Prescribed in the U.S. Constitution!!

Mudboy Slim  posted on  2008-05-04   23:37:24 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#56. To: Peppa (#48)

He admitted it...

Peppa, have you presented your entire case?

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:37:30 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#57. To: Mudboy Slim (#39)

LOL...robin, as one of your BOZOs, it does appear that you are a rather allergic to debate.

Mud, why don't you call her "Penis Breath". Isn't that how freepers debate? Or is that just you?

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...  posted on  2008-05-04   23:37:36 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#58. To: ... (#53)

Shaddup, moron, the adults are talking...MUD

Devolve Power Outta the Federal Leviathan and Back to the States,
Localities, and Individuals as Prescribed in the U.S. Constitution!!

Mudboy Slim  posted on  2008-05-04   23:38:00 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#59. To: Pinguinite (#49)

Yes, totally, totally off the wall. Peppa's accusation is completely out of context except for the fact that she voiced it at the very point when Chrissy is very distressed.

Why?

You admit that you read. As is carefully illustrated in your disclaimer.

Peppa  posted on  2008-05-04   23:38:39 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#60. To: Mudboy Slim (#55)

But if they are free to post, immune to comments and questions from those who may disagree with their viewpoints, what find of 4um is THAT?!

Mud, what if they let you call them "Penis Breath". That's basically the only sort of comment you're capable of making. So would that make things OK with you?

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...  posted on  2008-05-04   23:39:13 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#61. To: IndieTX (#52)

I say do NOT get rid of BOZO.

Sounds like you have me on Bozo, but I agree.

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-04   23:39:18 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#62. To: Mudboy Slim (#58)

Shaddup, moron, the adults are talking...MUD

My point is made Mud. You're a moron incapable of rational debate.

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...  posted on  2008-05-04   23:39:55 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#63. To: Jethro Tull (#50)

Nothing in there I wouldn't tell the man w/o a number to his face.

Well, if you've been bad-mouthing me behind my back, it's news to me. Can't say I'm surprised though.

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:40:14 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#64. To: ... (#62)

If there was ever a reason for bozo...

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-04   23:40:39 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#65. To: Pinguinite (#56)

He admitted it... Peppa, have you presented your entire case?

You will have to work that out with Christine.

Peppa  posted on  2008-05-04   23:41:04 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#66. To: robin (#64)

If there was ever a reason for bozo...

That's right. Mud can't defend his viewpoint, he can only attack people for expressing theirs. It's called "Freeper Debate". If you can't refute the other side, try to shut them up with harassment tactics.

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...  posted on  2008-05-04   23:42:22 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#67. To: Pinguinite (#63)

Well, if you've been bad-mouthing me behind my back, it's news to me.

Gun grabbers deserve no less.

Jethro Tull  posted on  2008-05-04   23:45:16 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#68. To: Mudboy Slim (#55)

Problem is, if we all ignore variant viewpoints, you get a bunch of folks posting past each other and threads lose what used to make threads interesting...rational debate!!

"Debate" is not necessarily the be-all end-all. What's wrong with a magazine that gives different opinions about world events? Sure the writers may not read one another's articles, but the general readership will. Do you want to FORCE the writers to read each other's articles? If you want all the articles to agree, maybe, but that may be because some writers walk away.

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:45:52 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#69. To: Pinguinite (#68)

Do you want to FORCE the writers to read each other's articles?

No, Mud's sulking because of his double digit bozo rank.

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...  posted on  2008-05-04   23:47:57 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#70. To: A bozo MAXIMUM (#67)

Since the bozo has become a tool to demoralize in my opinion (I just picked up another during this thread) I think a MAXIMUM number might be the way to go. LF had a goofy rating system that was misused in a similar fashion. If anyone has more than three to five people they can't stand, perhaps they're in the wrong place.

Jethro Tull  posted on  2008-05-04   23:50:18 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#71. To: robin, Pinguinite, all (#44)

leads me to suspect that there may be some here who would like to see this 4um shut down. I wonder why?

this is what is distressing. the level of distrust among us now. both sides accusing the other of an agenda to destroy or shut down 4um.

christine  posted on  2008-05-04   23:50:18 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#72. To: Peppa (#59)

You admit that you read. As is carefully illustrated in your disclaimer.

You still haven't explained why you aired this accusation on THIS thread.

I demand you explain WHY you felt this the appropriate thread to make this accusation!

As for my disclaimer, if your reading comprehension tells you that I read PM's then as I said, for YOU it is true, and you should make other communication arrangements.

I *REFUSE* to be placed in a position of having to prove I've NOT done something because that is impossible for me to do. Ergo, my defense remains that if you think I'm reading your PM's then as far as you are concerned I *AM* reading your PMs.

Now, why this accusation here, on this thread! WHY?!?!? You refuse to explain?

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:51:20 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#73. To: christine (#71)

Don't let it get to you. Leave the bozo and let us continue.

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-04   23:52:05 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#74. To: Peppa (#65)

You will have to work that out with Christine.

Christine will judge.

And I suspect Christine knows me a lot better than she knows you.

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:52:58 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#75. To: Pinguinite (#74)

You will have to work that out with Christine. Christine will judge.

And I suspect Christine knows me a lot better than she knows you.

It's not about sides, it's about privacy.

So, it's up to her.

If the webmaster can't be trusted, as you have said, you have your rights to do whatever you want, then, of course, it's up to everyone to decide whether it's worth it to accomodate your nose in their butt.

Peppa  posted on  2008-05-04   23:57:10 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#76. To: Pinguinite (#72)

I'm afraid it was too subtle, but I enjoyed it. I once suggested a similar idea for Bush/Cheney - we create this alternate reality for them to live in with simulated war/torture/destruction/rape/offshore-accts so they can leave the world alone and still be happy.

Rather like the joke about Baptists in heaven, they have this huge wall around them so they can think they are the only ones in heaven. Hey, that's almost like the bozo filter - I've made a full circle.

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-04   23:58:42 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#77. To: christine (#71)

this is what is distressing. the level of distrust among us now. both sides accusing the other of an agenda to destroy or shut down 4um.

Chrissy, that's only true if there are only 2 sides.

If you need a break, you might consider temporarily banning anyone you feel might be causing a problem. If that includes me than I'll gladly honor that for you and it's okay. I would come back when you decide.

I now agree there is a problem that should be addressed.

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-04   23:59:00 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#78. To: robin, christine, Pinguinite (#16)

foul mouthed attacks

I agree with robin. That is the right of anyone, regardless of their opinions.

I also admit to bozoing two, one of which is a shill, Mister Clean, the other for his absolutely foul mouth, which I do not appreciate. I have come close to doing the same for another, but have resisted. I am also on bozo from considerably more, which may have something to do with my opinion about Obama.... perhaps?

Just my opinion, but if you do away with the bozo, you will need to establish a committee to resolve banishments, at least I would think so. Or, you may find that the spam from shills will overwhelm the genuine posters, of which there are many in 4um. The bozo filter is a wonderful tool for limiting the shills in their ability to disrupt the free exchange of ideas. I think that most of this problem will disappear once the queen is elected anyway.

This, of course, is just my opinion for what it is worth.

When a man who is honestly mistaken hears the truth, he will either quit being mistaken or cease to be honest. ++++++++++ Attention, Shrub; A life of evil is ultimately a life of wretchedness.

richard9151  posted on  2008-05-05   0:00:17 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#79. To: Peppa (#75)

If the webmaster can't be trusted, as you have said, you have your rights to do whatever you want, then, of course, it's up to everyone to decide whether it's worth it to accomodate your nose in their butt.

Still no evidence....

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-05   0:00:24 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#80. To: Pinguinite, christine (#77)

And I would be happy to take a long vacation, if that would help.

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-05   0:00:49 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#81. To: christine (#0)

I bozo nobody. I want to know everyone's views whether I agree with them or not.

With open free speech there is bound to be some disagreement. After this election I think things will settle down around here. There are a lot of people here who are really into politics.

God is always good!

RickyJ  posted on  2008-05-05   0:02:27 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#82. To: richard9151 (#78)

Just my opinion, but if you do away with the bozo, you will need to establish a committee to resolve banishments, at least I would think so. Or, you may find that the spam from shills will overwhelm the genuine posters, of which there are many in 4um.

In other words, discord would increase, not decrease.

I agree.

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-05   0:02:28 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#83. To: Peppa (#59)

You admit that you read. As is carefully illustrated in your disclaimer.

You were told at the sign up that the PM's weren't secure and that you should act accordingly. This was done for Neil's protection more than anything else.

There was an incident in the past where PMs did get read. People assumed THOSE PMs were secure when they weren't, so a different tact was taken here, i.e., here you were told not to assume security in the PMs.

Neil is right. He can't prove that he didn't read them and it's silly to ask him to. But I've known Neil for many years and I seriously doubt if he does read them. It simply isn't in character for him.

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#84. To: richard9151 (#78)

I started off with a just a few on bozo for the beyond rude. Then I expanded it to blatant racists, the generally annoying and trolls. I intend to remove names over time and see how it goes, but it is what I need now.

"To destroy a people you must first sever their roots." - Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

robin  posted on  2008-05-05   0:04:16 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#85. To: christine (#0)

I think part of what you're watching is exactly what Claire Wolf describes when she says we are in that in between state of attempting to work through a broken and corrupt system and outright shooting the bas-. I spend time reading through another forum's general discussion board and the same discussion is going on. So far, the only guideline has been to keep the conservation as civil as possible and let the debate take it's course. Even with that guideline, harsh exchanges happen. So know you're not alone.

My two cents is to do nothing. Nothing other than do your best to keep the conversation as civil as possible. At the very least, I would be slow to implement any change and wait until the Primaries conclude, re-evaluate and go from there. My other two cents, is if you can arrange for it, take a couple/three days away from the board to rest, de-stress and come back re-energized.

"What began in Russia will end in America."- 1930, Elder Ignatius of Harbin, Manchuria.

scooter  posted on  2008-05-05   0:07:16 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#86. To: Peppa (#75)

It's not about sides, it's about privacy.

There is no guarantee of privacy in the PMs. That's the only way to defeat a charge that they are being snooped into. If you want a secure link, use the PM to give the person a one off hotmail address and use that for your private discussion.

Be that as it may, I seriously doubt if anyone is reading your PMs.

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...  posted on  2008-05-05   0:08:16 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#87. To: robin (#80)

And I would be happy to take a long vacation, if that would help.

I don't think that would help this forum at all. This forum needs contributors and you contribute a lot.

God is always good!

RickyJ  posted on  2008-05-05   0:10:57 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#88. To: robin (#73)

Leave the bozo and let us continue.

Continue what? Breaking down into tiny, non communicative camps? LF was ruined by an organized "rating system" and now the bozo is being used in the same way. I think some modicum of respect needs to be enforced and a limit to the number of bozo's. People can rotate "offenders" on and off as needed, but the current system is being used as a tool.

Jethro Tull  posted on  2008-05-05   0:11:35 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#89. To: Pinguinite, robin, Jethro Tull, all (#82)

regarding the bozo, i think the solution is a compromise. we'll keep the feature, but limit the number of spaces. i'll be making the decision on what that number should be.

christine  posted on  2008-05-05   0:15:58 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#90. To: Jethro Tull (#70)

"Since the bozo has become a tool to demoralize in my opinion (I just picked up another during this thread) I think a MAXIMUM number might be the way to go. LF had a goofy rating system that was misused in a similar fashion. If anyone has more than three to five people they can't stand, perhaps they're in the wrong place."

Perhaps you need to MYOB about who puts who on bozo. The kill file function has been a part of this software for years.

And opponents in an argument or lively discussion almost never change their minds in the course of an argument or lively discussion so the smart money has always been on a lurker focus in forum comments in the first place.

I have no sympathy for this sort of attack based on such a naval contemplation point.


"Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly." Robert F. Kennedy

Ferret Mike  posted on  2008-05-05   0:16:26 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#91. To: christine (#89)

I can ignore with a simple scroll by, I don't need the bozo function. In this tangent of attack, the malfunction lies with the Prima Donnas whining about who bozos them, not those using the function as designed.


"Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly." Robert F. Kennedy

Ferret Mike  posted on  2008-05-05   0:19:24 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#92. To: Pinguinite (#79)

If the webmaster can't be trusted, as you have said, you have your rights to do whatever you want, then, of course, it's up to everyone to decide whether it's worth it to accomodate your nose in their butt. Still no evidence

You admitted it neil.

Like i said, it's between you and Christine.

Perhaps a software change where access to read is permitted only by the forum owner.

Peppa  posted on  2008-05-05   0:20:57 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#93. To: Ferret Mike (#90)

I am confused. Why should anyone give a rats ass if someone has them on bozo?

I think the real solution is to take the bozo count off the set up page. Then you wouldn't know how many people had you on bozo.

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...  posted on  2008-05-05   0:21:07 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#94. To: Jethro Tull (#88)

Breaking down into tiny, non communicative camps? LF was ruined by an organized "rating system" and now the bozo is being used in the same way.

Which is why the bozo counts are not publicized. If people weren't starting threads about how many people have them on bozo, JT, then maybe this wouldn't rise to the level of a rating system.

Is that why you started that thread? Have you been campaigning for this change?

Pinguinite  posted on  2008-05-05   0:21:17 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  


#95. To: Ferret Mike (#90)

That's my opinion. If you disagree, MYOB.

Jethro Tull  posted on  2008-05-05   0:21:51 ET  Reply   Trace   Private Reply  



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