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Health See other Health Articles Title: Worst fears come true with Neb. safe haven law OMAHA, Neb. - When Nebraska lawmakers passed a unique “safe-haven” law that allowed parents to abandon children as old as 19, they never seriously thought such dropoffs would become common. But their worst fears have come true: At least 16 children, some of them teenagers, have been abandoned since the law took effect in July. Now elected officials are considering revising the law, and at least one anguished parent said he only surrendered his kids because he felt he had no choice. “If we see another family being left off, then we’re going to have to do something immediately,” said state Sen. Arnie Stuthman, who introduced legislation that was the basis for the law. Stuthman said lawmakers need to set a maximum age for children who can be handed over to the state, and he’s not sure whether it can wait until the Legislature reconvenes in January. But it’s not clear whether Gov. Dave Heineman will call a special session to modify the law, even though he has said it should be changed. For now, the law permits caregivers to abandon children at state-certified hospitals without fear of prosecution. It was intended to protect infants, but was amended to include the word “child,” which isn’t defined. So some have concluded the law covers all minors, which in Nebraska includes anyone under the age of 19. The latest example happened Wednesday, when an out-of-work widower left nine of his 10 children at an Omaha hospital, saying he was overwhelmed by family responsibilities. Gary Staton went to Creighton University Medical Center to surrender his five sons and four of his daughters, who ranged in age from 1 to 17. He did not bring his oldest daughter, 18. Staton’s wife died in early 2007, shortly after giving birth to their 10th child. The man told police he hasn’t worked since July and was struggling to make ends meet. Click for related content KETV interview with Gary Staton “I was with her for 17 years, and then she was gone. What was I going to do?” Staton said to Omaha television station KETV. “We raised them together. I didn’t think I could do it alone. I fell apart. I couldn’t take care of them.” Calls by The Associated Press to a number listed for Staton went unanswered Friday. State official: Staton didn't ask for help A number of relatives have volunteered to take the Staton siblings, said Kathie Osterman, a spokeswoman for the state department of Health and Human Services. She said the children may be temporarily placed with those family members until a judge decides on permanent custody. Osterman said Staton never asked relatives for help. Todd Landry, director of the division of Children and Family Services, said the safe-haven law was designed to help children who are in danger, but none of the kids who were dropped off had been in harm’s way. In addition to Staton’s kids, two unrelated boys were left Wednesday at a different Omaha hospital. Landry said he empathizes with parents who struggle to raise their families, but “it is the job of a parent to be a parent.” He said there are resources to help them. James Blue, president and CEO of the Lincoln-based nonprofit Cedars, which works with abused and neglected children, said he’s been inundated with calls ever since the safe-haven law took effect. He said the group gets more than 10 calls a day from struggling parents, and its temporary shelter is at its capacity of 15. “While this (law) has, I think, exposed an underbelly of our society of families that are dropping teenagers off forever at a hospital, it has also given a message to families that there is help out there,” Blue said. He said it’s important for the state to have a safe-haven law, but there needs to be an age limit for the children who are left behind. Law passed after years of debate Nebraska lawmakers tried for years to pass the law, and they succeeded this year only after intense debate. Senators worried that an age limit was too arbitrary and that it might endanger youngsters who were just a week too old. “It does open a door to older children being left off,” Sen. Gwen Howard said during debate of the bill. But she added: “I don’t see that being a problem.” She acknowledged Friday that the lack of an age limit had become an issue, but insisted it offers the state an opportunity to reach out to struggling families. “We need to look at the bigger picture of what’s going on with parents and children,” Howard said. CONTINUED: Most states focus on infants Related stories What’s this? Father Leaves 9 Children Under Safe Haven Law Second Baby Abandoned At Same Fire Rescue Station Experts To Discuss Alternatives For Abandoning Kids Girl, 13, Abandoned At Omaha Hospital Experts disagree on safe haven laws Sen. Ernie Chambers, who cast the lone vote against the law, said Friday that lawmakers will be forced to revisit a bad bill. “I knew it would have broad results, and they would have to come back and readdress the issue,” he said. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26630013/ Nebraska was the last state to adopt a safe-haven law. Most other states have focused their laws on protecting infants. For years, child-welfare experts have disagreed about whether safe-haven laws reduce the total number of abandoned children. Adam Pertman, executive director of the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute and an opponent of safe-haven laws, said he’s never seen anything like what’s happening in Nebraska. “What we’re seeing is the unfolding of a policy that wasn’t well thought-out,” he said. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26902738/ FDA warns of instant coffee in U.S. from China Dad battles for son taken to Brazil four years ago Thieves stealing children's identities Passers-by were ‘angels’ when girl, 6, lost hand FBI probes major firms at center of meltdown Most viewed on msnbc.com Acting legend Paul Newman dies at 83 End of road for driver with $1.9 million in fines Charge dropped against man accused of farting Lawmakers cite progress on huge bailout deal Cops: Teen hired pair to kill his mom for money Most viewed on msnbc.com updated 3:14 p.m. PT, Fri., Sept. 26, 2008
Poster Comment: funny how the state passes this bs law under the guise of being a benevolent papa govt, but when people actually take them up on it, they try to blame and villify the parents.
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The State wants control over the children but not the responsibility for them. They want to tell you how you must implement their decisions.
"If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their money, first by inflation and then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around them (around the banks), will deprive the people of their property until their children will wake up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered." - Thomas Jefferson
I gave my sister's kids away from one keep declaring in public, "You broke my heart!" and also threatened to have my mother pull my braces off with a pair of pliers. The other one always keep chasing people with a yardstick and yelling, "I'll chop your head off!" Actually I traded them for a dog. I got the better deal.
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